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#21
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Anonymous32448, Travelinglady
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Aurelius710, downandlonely
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#22
Being put on ignore is annoying in that I wish something had been said to me before that step was taken, but in the end, it's their decision. I can't make them like me.
For what it's worth, it doesn't sound like the ignore has anything to do you with you really. Not in the serious sense. It's just somebody's decision. Something that, from me, would elicit a sigh and an "Oh, well." I would just keep being you. Plenty of us want you here! __________________ "I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past, I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain." -Litany Against Fear (Dune) |
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#24
willowtigger, I don't know what site you were on, but that sort of thing wouldn't happen here. When you're put on ignore, it just means that someone can't deal with something you've posted and needs to take a break from such things. I noticed with surprise that I had been put on ignore by someone I don't even know.
I've never put anyone on ignore, but maybe I'm a bit more thick skinned. And I've never been harassed. If someone posts something that upsets us, we can also contact a moderator to see if it's just our issue or totally inappropriate in anyone's thinking. There's no way that I can see to ask that person why I was ignored--and I just have to believe that they have their own issues. I've not seen anything you've posted that's made me even consider "ignoring" you. You're a valued member here, whether you've giving help or seeking help. Love, Trav |
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#26
I don't think it'll be beneficial to try and understand why each individual in our community chooses to use the tools we provide them to use to ensure their own safety & reduce their feelings of anxiety. Everybody has different reasons why they choose to put someone on their ignore list, and it's not our place to speculate as to the "why."
I'm closing this thread now, because your concern has been expressed but there's nothing we can do to address it at this time. Other members have offered you their thoughts on this issue, too, and I hope you found them helpful. __________________ Don't throw away your shot. |
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