I want to add a member as a friend but it says account suspended under their name, how do I add them to my friends list?

I don't see the normal button to add them, nothings there

Maybe it's my phone idk

[*Beth*]

Hi willowtiger, I can't remember ever adding anyone to my friends list, it seems like I get the requests, then I add people. The only reason I haven't added people is because I tend to forget the list exists. I've never been exactly sure of the point of it, since I don't use it for anything. So I'm not positive, but I'm thinking that if a member's account is on suspension (and there can be a number of reasons for that; sometimes the person has requested to be "on vacation" for a while) you won't be able to add them as a friend.

[DocJohn]

You can't add a suspended member to your friends list, because they are suspended. When they become unsuspended, if it's a temporary suspension, you can add them then.

Ok how do we know whether its temporary or forever ban?

I can't use the word you used sorry doc John I can't trust alter corrupt

I not as worried over bans as I am over something else that gets done, the other thing that gets done is there's no way out of it for me, I get trapped in it cause the message starts being nasty which sets me off and the more upset and freaked out I get the more I see the message

[DocJohn]

We can't tell you, as that's an administrative issue and remains private between us and the member. Sorry.

Oops sorry

Shh willowtigger that's a secret

If they was to tell you anything they'd have to kill willowtigger so shh

[DocJohn]

There's no need to apologize for asking a question. I'm just letting you know why, according to the guidelines and our privacy policy, I can't share additional information about any suspended member. It's not a "secret" and nobody is threatening you for asking the question.