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Old Sep 03, 2017, 10:52 PM
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Hi, I noticed a thread asking where everyone is. I would reply to it ((( Trace ))) but I feel safer starting my own thread. (I think)

I have trust issues (understatement)

Hugs to anyone who accepts hugs (sorry I haven't been around much in this forum - again, trust issues. I'm trying to refocus, or something.

I don't really want to be on this planet as I've been hurt so many times. But I'm not giving up, I think I feel that failure isn't an option.

I'm not going to shut myself away completely because I'm scared.

I don't feel safe in the world . I think people here will "get" that.

In peace
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Old Sep 03, 2017, 11:01 PM
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Hi, I noticed a thread asking where everyone is. I would reply to it ((( Trace ))) but I feel safer starting my own thread. (I think)

I have trust issues (understatement)

Hugs to anyone who accepts hugs (sorry I haven't been around much in this forum - again, trust issues. I'm trying to refocus, or something.

I don't really want to be on this planet as I've been hurt so many times. But I'm not giving up, I think I feel that failure isn't an option.

I'm not going to shut myself away completely because I'm scared.

I don't feel safe in the world . I think people here will "get" that.

In peace
Hey Fuzzy, so glad you stopped by
The World is a scary place right now but we are safe here.
Failure isn't an option, we have to win this battle.
And yes we get the feeling of being unsafe, that's why we come to this tropical rain forest room with beautiful birds flying around and small furry creatures being curious about us It's not too hot or too cold it's just right here
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Old Sep 03, 2017, 11:11 PM
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Thanks Trace. I like this forum but might not stop by again for a while

Thank you for trying to help me feel safe

Do you feel scared too? Of things you aren't allowed to talk about?
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Old Sep 03, 2017, 11:13 PM
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Thanks Trace. I like this forum but might not stop by again for a while

Thank you for trying to help me feel safe

Do you feel scared too? Of things you aren't allowed to talk about?
Yes, in fact I was just talking about that in another thread about how trauma silences our voices. I think it's true.
Fuzzy you are always welcome here and no one will hurt you here. But do what makes you feel comfortable. I want you to feel safe. Just know you always have a safe place here.
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Old Sep 03, 2017, 11:52 PM
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I just posted something but deleted it, maybe I ...

Or I'm just about to delete it now
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Old Sep 03, 2017, 11:53 PM
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Old Sep 04, 2017, 12:31 AM
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I don't really want to be on this planet as I've been hurt so many times. But I'm not giving up, I think I feel that failure isn't an option.

I'm not going to shut myself away completely because I'm scared.

I don't feel safe in the world . I think people here will "get" that.

In peace
I can relate to those things fuzzy. Everyday we succeed, I think we are strong, despite the feelings of mistrust, and lack of safety.

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Old Sep 04, 2017, 12:34 AM
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I can relate to those things fuzzy. Everyday we succeed, I think we are strong, despite the feelings of mistrust, and lack of safety.

Thanks Soup, it's been a rough night

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I find the world unsafe in so many ways. Hugs to you Fuzzybear. You're always welcome and safe here.
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Old Sep 04, 2017, 07:35 AM
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((( Fuzzy )))
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