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Here’s another goodie— I told my sister I had PTSD (diagnosed by a doctor) it goes back to Mom screaming at me at the dinner table. (Which she witnessed many, many times.) She said ( this was a text), “Do you expect me to agree with that?”
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My mom ran over a nest of rabbits she put them back. The mom never came. I bottle fed 6 baby rabbits for two weeks. They take forever to drink out of a bottle. It took an hour and a half twice a day. My mom but them on the porch in 90 degree weather. They all died but one. I was crying holding the only one left and my stepdad pulled up and told my mom I probably killed the rabbits. Hurts me to this day and that was 20 years ago.
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When you say you struggle with ptsd and it is used against you so the other person can get the control THEY want and blame things on you as though ptsd means it's really your fault and not theirs when it IS their fault.
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When I was going through the toughest time of my life, I longed for a life-partner to help me get through, because I saw how other people in my situation had partners to help them get through.
One person said; "No one wants someone who is needy." Another person said; "You have all those problems and you want to tell someone to come into your miserable life and join you in your misery." |
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That's so unprofessional of him.
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"do you want to embarrass your family?"
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"why do you act so messed up."
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My last living sibling blackmailed me into not outing my rapist brother, because ‘he would surely take his own life within the hour’. What about my life?!
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a long time ago my dad told me he didnt want me to live with him through my sister because i have a big mouth
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I could have aborted you, you know-mom
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really? I doubt ptsd is a game of can you top this. I know mine isn't. and what is god awful for one person may be nothing for another. why even make a post like this? enjoy reading triggering things? enjoy having folks post their triggering things? seriously? what does this post accomplish positively?
do you also ask vets how many they kill? etc. please. someone put an end to this post ...because again to what use does it help anyone? or will it simply turn into a "well then this happened to me" topic |
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"I should have killed you while I still could." -An ex
"You're actually very nice, you don't look the part." Because people with piercings and tats apparently aren't nice I guess. -A friend's mom "I hope your dog dies." -My cousins. The poor thing died from chocolates they sent... (I was a kid.) |
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Loving this thread!
"If you kick, we'll kick twice as hard." - Unethical Therapist "What's it like, not to be protected?" - Unethical Therapist "Maybe you should just end your life." - Mom "You're just paranoid. It is not possible that healthcare professionals would ever hurt you." - Brother "You're a spoiled little #$%@." - Mom "Therapists would never do that!" - Distress Center "Your age regression is a mental illness, it is not healthy at all!" - Distress Center "Now you are homeless. Figure it out." - Dad "Maybe you deserved it." - Mom "Your brother would never do that." - Mom "You have a demon inside of you." - Brother "You have a monster under the bed and we just want to know what it is." - Unethical Psychiatrist There are many others - but these are triggering me and I need to take a break. Thanks, HD7970ghz __________________ "stand for those who are forgotten - sacrifice for those who forget" "roller coasters not only go up and down - they also go in circles" "the point of therapy - is to get out of therapy" "don't put all your eggs - in one basket" "promote pleasure - prevent pain" "with change - comes loss" |
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I am sorry you feel that way.
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Hi Resurgam, While your feelings are valid, I must question whether or not you understand the purpose of this thread. It is not to compare trauma - it is to connect with fellow survivors on something we can all relate to: abuse. No one is trying to one up, if that is how you think I believe that is something you should explore for yourself. In therapy it would be seen as valuable information. I am not trying to be rude here, but I seem to remember you posting something rather invalidating and rude on one of my threads which actually triggered me quite a bit. Perhaps you should look at how your writing is impacting others before you post. Just a thought. Have a good day, Thanks, HD7970ghz __________________ "stand for those who are forgotten - sacrifice for those who forget" "roller coasters not only go up and down - they also go in circles" "the point of therapy - is to get out of therapy" "don't put all your eggs - in one basket" "promote pleasure - prevent pain" "with change - comes loss" |
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a memory that keeps coming back to me:
one time my parents baught home a cheeseburger and some fries for me (while they had a hamburger) they knew I didn't like cheese, and as I bit in to it, I started to feel really sick I turned to my mom and said I don't think I can eat this burger and she turned to me and went well, you'll have to starve then. their isn't anything else maybe not the worst thing said to me, but it's pretty bad as I constantly remember it |
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