#whats the worst thing someone told you?

SilverSprings · Jan 06, 2022 at 07:02 AM

“I thought of a great nickname for her (says to other office staff)… BLONDIE!” - prior boss

“You scare me… “ - same prior boss (this has haunted me many times a day each day for years. Because I couldn’t ask him why, and I assumed he meant it’s because I’m too dumb to do my work correctly but I also have wondered if it meant I was somehow scary to him)

“I don’t love you anymore” - Ex husband

“Piglet” “Wilber” “big fat girl waling out there” - various boys in middle school

“We noticed you’re gaining allot of weight” - parents

“You walk like a catholic school girl with your head down” - parents and dad proceeds to walk with his head down making a big joke of me

“You’re too nice on the phone” - parents sitting outside of my office when I worked for my dad, laughing at me on the phone which I am terrified of most days (making phone calls in front of others)

“You remind me of my cousin, you have her body” - guy who raped me (many others have and said gross things )

downandlonely · Jan 06, 2022 at 07:44 AM

My mom told me she wished she had never had children.

Lydiamarilyn · Apr 25, 2022 at 05:05 AM

"I'm going to ****ing kill you, this is my country, and nobody will ever find you."

Probably was so painful, because it was blood.

Apr 25, 2022 at 09:11 AM

“You demolish everything you touch.” —My mom

Amethyst_Stargazer · May 02, 2022 at 04:17 PM

My abuser said many awful things to me but I think the worst thing he ever said to me was, "Nobody will ever love you. Nobody could ever love someone like YOU!"

*Beth* · May 05, 2022 at 09:08 PM

Ahhhh....my mom told me throughout my entire childhood that she wished she'd never had children. And

Possible trigger:

before I went to bed, "Don't close your eyes tonight because I'm going to kill you." I was 9 years old.

My mom was a very, very hurt person. She had a sad life.

So many things. People hurt each other too easily.

Nammu · May 05, 2022 at 09:57 PM

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Originally Posted by *Beth*

Ahhhh....my mom told me throughout my entire childhood that she wished she'd never had children. And

Possible trigger:

before I went to bed, "Don't close your eyes tonight because I'm going to kill you." I was 9 years old.

My mom was a very, very hurt person. She had a sad life.

So many things. People hurt each other too easily.

I’m glad you’re here. You contribute so much goodness on msf

Bill3 · May 05, 2022 at 11:33 PM

((((((((*Beth*)))))))))

I'm really sorry that you had to hear those awful words.

*Beth* · May 06, 2022 at 12:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nammu

I’m glad you’re here. You contribute so much goodness on msf

My gosh, Nammu...thank you. Wow.

*Beth* · May 06, 2022 at 12:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bill3

((((((((*Beth*)))))))))

I'm really sorry that you had to hear those awful words.

Thank you, that's kind of you.

Skeezyks · May 06, 2022 at 01:14 PM

My high school guidance counselor (Doris W.) told me I was going to be a bum because I couldn't tell her what I wanted to do when I grew up. Thing is... as it turned out... she was right!

MuddyBoots · Feb 21, 2023 at 08:50 AM

"I love you and care about you" - guy who r**ed me.

Nov 23, 2023 at 06:31 PM

This is your choice. God is in control. Just get over it. You are over medicated. Agree to disagree. I. Take full responsibility for what I said/ did to you- then they repeat behavior that was harmful to me.

MuddyBoots · Nov 24, 2023 at 04:56 AM

"I'm a sociopath who would end up in jail without drugs & alcohol... You're just like me, you know?"
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Other ED encouraging stuff like "If you can pinch an inch, you're too fat." "You should be able to see your ribs." "Gotta do 50 push ups a day, every day, and at least 100 sit ups." (He didn't do any of this himself), but of course I wanted to be "healthy" so I took this as religion.
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"Every time you feel that lump in your throat, your eyes watering, hold it back and do something else. When I'm depressed I just forget it. I don't get angry (no shyt sherlock you're always on downers)." (Surprise, I found self harm, disordered eating, abusive relationships, and severely inwardly directed anger that explodes outwardly every now and then).
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Probably the worst of all
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"Mom, the neighbor is, uh, doing things to me he shouldn't be doing."
Mom: What do you want me to do about it?
--Later on, same convo--
Dad: yeah, listen, you should go to the roman empire woman had it way worse

Blah nlah · Dec 29, 2023 at 01:00 AM

“She took my place next to my husband, go then, do what married people do”

“If I knew you were gonna grow up and cry so much I would have killed you when you were born”

“I’m telling you, even if you committed suicide, I’ll go back to living normally as if i have no daughter.”

“Just pretend as if you don’t have a mother and I’ll pretend I don’t have a child.”

“You seem to have some sort of mental problem, that you keep changing plans”

Travelinglady · Jan 02, 2024 at 11:08 AM

There are so many my mother said. I think the worst was when I was in labor and she said, "If your baby looks like your husband, then I'm not going to have anything to do with him." (The baby didn't.)

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downandlonely Legendary Member Since Mar 2018 Location: United States Posts: 10,760 (SuperPoster!) 6 10.6k hugs given	Jan 06, 2022 at 07:44 AM #122 My mom told me she wished she had never had children.
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Lydiamarilyn Member Member Since Apr 2022 Location: America Posts: 33 2 30 hugs given	Apr 25, 2022 at 05:05 AM #123 "I'm going to ****ing kill you, this is my country, and nobody will ever find you." Probably was so painful, because it was blood.
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Anonymous48031 Guest Posts: n/a	Apr 25, 2022 at 09:11 AM #124 “You demolish everything you touch.” —My mom
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Amethyst_Stargazer Member Member Since Oct 2016 Location: Florida USA Posts: 375 8 56 hugs given	May 02, 2022 at 04:17 PM #125 My abuser said many awful things to me but I think the worst thing he ever said to me was, "Nobody will ever love you. Nobody could ever love someone like YOU!"
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Bill3 Legendary Member Since Mar 2009 Location: USA Posts: 10,943 15 24.1k hugs given	May 05, 2022 at 11:33 PM #128 ((((((((Beth))))))))) I'm really sorry that you had to hear those awful words.
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MuddyBoots Monster on the Hill Member Since Sep 2020 Location: by the river Posts: 5,409 (SuperPoster!) 4 6,310 hugs given	Feb 21, 2023 at 08:50 AM #132 "I love you and care about you" - guy who r**ed me. __________________ [Insert thought-provoking and comedic quote here]
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Anonymous48508 Guest Posts: n/a	Nov 23, 2023 at 06:31 PM #133 This is your choice. God is in control. Just get over it. You are over medicated. Agree to disagree. I. Take full responsibility for what I said/ did to you- then they repeat behavior that was harmful to me.
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Travelinglady Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Sep 2010 Location: North Carolina Posts: 49,134 (SuperPoster!) 14 23.2k hugs given	Jan 02, 2024 at 11:08 AM #136 There are so many my mother said. I think the worst was when I was in labor and she said, "If your baby looks like your husband, then I'm not going to have anything to do with him." (The baby didn't.)
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