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#126
May 05, 2022, 09:08 PM
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Ahhhh....my mom told me throughout my entire childhood that she wished she'd never had children. And
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My mom was a very, very hurt person. She had a sad life. So many things. People hurt each other too easily.
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#127
May 05, 2022, 09:57 PM
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Nammu …Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …... Desiderata Max Ehrmann |
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#128
May 05, 2022, 11:33 PM
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((((((((*Beth*)))))))))
I'm really sorry that you had to hear those awful words. |
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#129
May 06, 2022, 12:56 AM
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My gosh, Nammu...thank you. Wow.
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#130
May 06, 2022, 12:56 AM
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Thank you, that's kind of you.
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#131
May 06, 2022, 01:14 PM
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My high school guidance counselor (Doris W.) told me I was going to be a bum because I couldn't tell her what I wanted to do when I grew up. Thing is... as it turned out... she was right!
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"I may be older but I am not wise / I'm still a child's grown-up disguise / and I never can tell you what you want to know / You will find out as you go." (from: "A Nightengale's Lullaby" - Julie Last) |
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#132
Feb 21, 2023, 08:50 AM
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"I love you and care about you" - guy who r**ed me.
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#133
Nov 23, 2023, 06:31 PM
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This is your choice. God is in control. Just get over it. You are over medicated. Agree to disagree. I. Take full responsibility for what I said/ did to you- then they repeat behavior that was harmful to me.
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#134
Nov 24, 2023, 04:56 AM
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"I'm a sociopath who would end up in jail without drugs & alcohol... You're just like me, you know?"
---- Other ED encouraging stuff like "If you can pinch an inch, you're too fat." "You should be able to see your ribs." "Gotta do 50 push ups a day, every day, and at least 100 sit ups." (He didn't do any of this himself), but of course I wanted to be "healthy" so I took this as religion. --- "Every time you feel that lump in your throat, your eyes watering, hold it back and do something else. When I'm depressed I just forget it. I don't get angry (no shyt sherlock you're always on downers)." (Surprise, I found self harm, disordered eating, abusive relationships, and severely inwardly directed anger that explodes outwardly every now and then). --- Probably the worst of all --- "Mom, the neighbor is, uh, doing things to me he shouldn't be doing." Mom: What do you want me to do about it? --Later on, same convo-- Dad: yeah, listen, you should go to the roman empire woman had it way worse
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#135
Dec 29, 2023, 01:00 AM
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“She took my place next to my husband, go then, do what married people do”
“If I knew you were gonna grow up and cry so much I would have killed you when you were born” “I’m telling you, even if you committed suicide, I’ll go back to living normally as if i have no daughter.” “Just pretend as if you don’t have a mother and I’ll pretend I don’t have a child.” “You seem to have some sort of mental problem, that you keep changing plans” |
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#136
Jan 02, 2024, 11:08 AM
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There are so many my mother said. I think the worst was when I was in labor and she said, "If your baby looks like your husband, then I'm not going to have anything to do with him." (The baby didn't.)
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