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Member Since Jun 2015
Location: USA East Coast
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#121
“I thought of a great nickname for her (says to other office staff)… BLONDIE!” - prior boss
“You scare me… “ - same prior boss (this has haunted me many times a day each day for years. Because I couldn’t ask him why, and I assumed he meant it’s because I’m too dumb to do my work correctly but I also have wondered if it meant I was somehow scary to him) “I don’t love you anymore” - Ex husband “Piglet” “Wilber” “big fat girl waling out there” - various boys in middle school “We noticed you’re gaining allot of weight” - parents “You walk like a catholic school girl with your head down” - parents and dad proceeds to walk with his head down making a big joke of me “You’re too nice on the phone” - parents sitting outside of my office when I worked for my dad, laughing at me on the phone which I am terrified of most days (making phone calls in front of others) “You remind me of my cousin, you have her body” - guy who raped me (many others have and said gross things ) __________________ ![]() Dx: BP 2 &/or BPD Rx: Lamictal 100mg “There are no mistakes. The events we bring upon ourselves, no matter how unpleasant, are necessary in order to learn what we need to learn; whatever steps we take, they're necessary to reach the places we've chosen to go.” ― Richard Bach |
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Member Since Mar 2018
Location: United States
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#122
My mom told me she wished she had never had children.
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Member Since Apr 2022
Location: America
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#123
"I'm going to ****ing kill you, this is my country, and nobody will ever find you."
Probably was so painful, because it was blood. |
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#124
“You demolish everything you touch.” —My mom
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Member Since Oct 2016
Location: Florida USA
Posts: 370
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#125
My abuser said many awful things to me but I think the worst thing he ever said to me was, "Nobody will ever love you. Nobody could ever love someone like YOU!"
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Member Since Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
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#126
Ahhhh....my mom told me throughout my entire childhood that she wished she'd never had children. And
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My mom was a very, very hurt person. She had a sad life. So many things. People hurt each other too easily. __________________ |
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Member Since May 2010
Location: Some where between my inner mind and the solar system.
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#127
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Member Since Mar 2009
Location: USA
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#128
((((((((*Beth*)))))))))
I'm really sorry that you had to hear those awful words. |
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Member Since Oct 2015
Location: The Star of the North
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#131
My high school guidance counselor (Doris W.) told me I was going to be a bum because I couldn't tell her what I wanted to do when I grew up. Thing is... as it turned out... she was right!
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Monster on the Hill
Member Since Sep 2020
Location: by the river
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#132
"I love you and care about you" - guy who r**ed me.
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#133
This is your choice. God is in control. Just get over it. You are over medicated. Agree to disagree. I. Take full responsibility for what I said/ did to you- then they repeat behavior that was harmful to me.
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#134
"I'm a sociopath who would end up in jail without drugs & alcohol... You're just like me, you know?"
---- Other ED encouraging stuff like "If you can pinch an inch, you're too fat." "You should be able to see your ribs." "Gotta do 50 push ups a day, every day, and at least 100 sit ups." (He didn't do any of this himself), but of course I wanted to be "healthy" so I took this as religion. --- "Every time you feel that lump in your throat, your eyes watering, hold it back and do something else. When I'm depressed I just forget it. I don't get angry (no shyt sherlock you're always on downers)." (Surprise, I found self harm, disordered eating, abusive relationships, and severely inwardly directed anger that explodes outwardly every now and then). --- Probably the worst of all --- "Mom, the neighbor is, uh, doing things to me he shouldn't be doing." Mom: What do you want me to do about it? --Later on, same convo-- Dad: yeah, listen, you should go to the roman empire woman had it way worse __________________ [Insert thought-provoking and comedic quote here] |
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Member Since Oct 2023
Location: Bangalore
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#135
“She took my place next to my husband, go then, do what married people do”
“If I knew you were gonna grow up and cry so much I would have killed you when you were born” “I’m telling you, even if you committed suicide, I’ll go back to living normally as if i have no daughter.” “Just pretend as if you don’t have a mother and I’ll pretend I don’t have a child.” “You seem to have some sort of mental problem, that you keep changing plans” |
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Member Since Sep 2010
Location: North Carolina
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#136
There are so many my mother said. I think the worst was when I was in labor and she said, "If your baby looks like your husband, then I'm not going to have anything to do with him." (The baby didn't.)
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