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Nov 16, 2018, 11:41 PM
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When my father (My abuser) found out my wife was pregnant with our 1st child he made me promise him,
"Do a better job than I did. There were some times that I hit you around and did some other things. Learn from my mistakes and be a better father than I was." It was the first time he admitted to me that what he did was wrong. He didn't directly apologize, but at least I got that much. My wife and I are about to have our 6th child and i have kept that promise. Along the way i also learned more about my grandfather. (Dad's Dad) My grandfather was abusive as well. My dads parenting skills were learned from my grandfather. Knowing this, I said to myself this abuse will not contiune with my children. |
 BettysGranddaughter, Fuzzybear, Skeezyks
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Nov 17, 2018, 03:15 PM
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Congratulations on having broken the cycle.
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Nov 17, 2018, 03:26 PM
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