[Justme_55]

My husband bores me..he doesn't last in bed, he only ever talks about how tired he is, he stopped brushing his teeth And maybe showers every three days. He's annoying and attempts to be a father when he sees I'm going to snap. I feel like I have two kids, only my three year old is more mature then my husband. I've put forth effort to make mutual interests or date nights; in which he falls asleep drunk holding his fat stomach. Leaving me mentally reeling and sexually annoyed.
I can't make him want this marriage, I don't want a Romeo, but I don't want a second grown child.

[shezbut]

Have you attempted going into T together, to work on these resentments building? If not, I'd recommend that you do so. It sounds as though you hold resentment towards your hub for a few reasons...have you tried talking about them with him? Any luck??

I hope that you're able to openly discuss these feelings haunting you inside. Working through them takes time and effort on both parts. Best wishes to you both!

[needfixing]

sorry (((hugs)))
why the sudden loss of hygiene? that's disgusting!
is he depressed? did he lose his job? a death in the family? not that i am giving your hubby any excuses for his behavior but something happened to him.
do the two of you talk? if not look into a marriage counselor, or pastor.
please keep us updated.