Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Dec 13, 2011, 06:54 PM
coping_father coping_father is offline
Junior Member
 
Member Since: Dec 2011
Location: Canada
Posts: 17
Riding the rollercoaster with my daughter over the past 2.5 years has been taxing .. to a point where sometimes I feel as if I'm becoming depressed as well.
In caring for and attempting to advocate for her, my emotions run wild and for the mostpart I keep them to myself.
I'm allowing my frustrations in dealing with the various situations to control my emotions! There are days I just want to roll up and dissappear or make the world go away .. but I fight it .. because I don't want to end up in a major clinical depression again.
Hopefully by joining this site will enable me to see the issues and others dealing with them .. helping me cope with my own situations.
Hugs from:
Perna

advertisement
  #2  
Old Dec 14, 2011, 02:09 PM
Perna's Avatar
Perna Perna is offline
Pandita-in-training
 
Member Since: Sep 2006
Location: Maryland
Posts: 27,289
Hi, coping_father, welcome to PsychCentral (PC).

Situations should not stay frustrating. If we feel frustrated we should take a step back and see what is standing in our own way (are we trying to "control" someone else and how they feel or act? Are we unclear on our own agenda, what we want and our plans to get it for ourselves? Are we too near-sighted, not seeing the whole picture (children grow up and become adults and have to learn to manage with less help from we, their parents)) and revisit our plans and priorities. If we feel "stuck", that's a chance for depression to enter, if we do not confront the problem; facing a problem is not the same as banging our heads against it
__________________
"Never give a sword to a man who can't dance." ~Confucius
  #3  
Old Dec 14, 2011, 04:48 PM
madisgram's Avatar
madisgram madisgram is offline
Elder
 
Member Since: Nov 2008
Location: Sunny East Coast Florida!
Posts: 6,873
welcome copping_father. may you find support here. glad you found us. it's a great community, justme, but know how many of us have benefitted from this site.
__________________
Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle.
The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand
Reply
Views: 271

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 09:36 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.