[lena000]

hello yo everybody its my first time visiting this site
a friend of mine recommended me this site
i wanna start of im a ver calm nice and likes to interact with people.
sometimes im in a situation were i try to hide my feelings
with my dad. my parents are divoced and sometimes i feel like what did i do 2 deserve this. its difficult but its helped me in becoming a better person i understand problems and help me understand life im not saying im happy that my parents seperated i would give anything 2 see them 2gether one more time.... know im more cautious on who i choose 2 let in my life. it kinda makes me sad sometimes that wen i tell my dad i wanna go 2 california 2 go see my mom we get into this huuggee fight and start screaming at me that i can leave the house and never come back he tells me lots of hurtfull things a dad would never dare to tell their daughter overall me and him have a good relationship but sometimes when i try to talk 2 him im scared 2 tell him how i feel without being judged or ignored a

[Leed]

This is sad. You don't say how old you are. But your Dad isn't being fair. It sounds like he's still bitter about the divorce. The trouble is, he's punishing YOU by not letting you see your mother! That's playing dirty. It's not YOUR fault that they got divorced. You SHOULD be able to see your mother! And he should LET you, without making you feel bad, guilty, afraid to ask, etc. There should be NO fighting about it either! When you ask, he should just SEND you when your school schedule lets you go (if you're in school).

Their divorce has nothing to do with you. You didn't cause it, and it's NOT your fault. He's got to stop taking his bitterness out on YOU. And if he can't spend more time with you, you should go live with your Mother!

God bless and please take care sweetie. Let me know how you're doing from time to time, will you? Hugs, Lee