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Old May 28, 2012, 09:22 PM
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Is it easier to feel the pain then rather break through it. my mind keeps telling me to not go foward. Does it take streghthn, were does it come from. i no its in me some were. he buried it, he made sure it wouldnt come out . he made sure my streghnths were never shown ever. i got beat for it. i no its here. How do others find it. Break through.
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Old May 31, 2012, 11:01 PM
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I am not perfect at this, but have been able to work through a lot of my pain over the years. I don't know exactly what you are speaking of, but I would encourage you to not listen to your mind if it is telling you to not go forward. And I guess I don't entirely understand your initial question about is it easier to feel the pain rather then break through it. Thanks for posting this, I hope you are able to move forward.
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Old Jun 01, 2012, 04:25 AM
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Carla, you HAVE THE STRENGTH. Don't let "him" tell you that you don't. You DO have the strength!! You can do ANYTHING you want to do!!!

I too was afraid of my husband almost 20 years ago -- he kept threatening me, he was abusive, etc. I was VERY afraid of him and I'd already stayed with him for 26 years!!! But finally I'd had enough -- and I LEFT. He STALKED me for a year; he phone me every night, all night. The police didn't do anything -- he bought a house just around the corner from me. So finally I moved out of town! He didn't know where I went. That was the end of that.

You CAN do this. You CAN get away! You HAVE the strength!!! YOU have to believe it sweetie. God bless. Hugs, Lee
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