[Kangtalovesyou]

For the past year I've been having a crush on a friend of mines online. We've never met but just know what we both look like through our Facebook pictures and a few times that we've webcam. I like him but lately I feel upset at everything he does. Honestly I don't think I trust him even though I want too. I don't understand why? Whenever other women flirt with him online or he mentions other girls to me I just get extremely upset. I even have problems with overthinking things and assuming too much. It makes me a very upset and stressed out person these days. How can I control all these emotions? I feel like it's slowly ruining me and making me become a very unhappy person. And also my friend gets upset too when I act this way, he tells me I don't trust him enough. He also told me that we can't be more than friends until we meet and see if we're compatible or not. Hearing all that makes me even more upset. So yes I have a terrible emotional problem. How would you guys go about fixing it?

[Leed]

Well jeez. lol Why not have a talk with him since you both get upset about what the other does. Find out if you two are going to be "exclusive" or not. Since he gets upset with what you do and you get upset with what he does, ask him what kind of relationship you two have! You're going to have to define this relationship now, even before you meet or else you two are going to fight even before then! Are you exclusive or not? Are you going to see others or not? Find out now before things get complicated. That's what I'd do.

I hope you get to meet soon. Best of luck and let us know what happens, ok? God bless & take care. hugs, Lee

[jelly-bean]

I agree with Leed. You need to define your relationship asap if it is causing you emotional problems. Have a nice long on-line talk and see how it goes. Let us know.