[wheresxenon]

Hello, I just joined this forums and I'm in quite a predicament. You see, my father conned one of his friends 40k for his failing buisness and today he found my mother and instantly started attacking her. Calling her unfit as a mother and human, both her and my dad are ruining his family. Heres the thing. He also conned my mother out of 500k for their failing resturant business(both ny father and that crazy douche). Hes acting like hes the only one suffering that hes so importatnt ignoring the fact that he took our money as well. And thats 10x as much.

Reall6, what the ****. He even came to our house and try to break down our door. We are having enough money troububles and breaking our door is not going to make anything better. He kept denying it as well, and my mothrr wouldnt let me slap him. I dont c a re if hed hwlf my age. He hasnt even said sorry once for my mothers lost money and flat out ignored that he took it in the first place. Now he believes he can insult her with her oods watching and are not suppose to retailate?! Honestly. Well in the end I did yell at him. I swore at him and my mother said I shouldnt have. Its like, why cant I... he caused us so much pain and I cant yell at him? What was I suppose to do?

[Travelinglady]

Hello to you, too! I don't blame you for being upset with this guy. He sounds unstable to me. I'd want to take up for my mother, too. However, this guy is her (and your dad's problem) to handle. I do hope they will prevent him from further abuse, even if they have to take out a restraining order.

I am assuming you are a younger person and your parents are still young enough to be capable of handling their own problems.

I'm so sorry you had to see this situation.

[wheresxenon]

Originally Posted by PAYNE1

Hello to you, too! I don't blame you for being upset with this guy. He sounds unstable to me. I'd want to take up for my mother, too. However, this guy is her (and your dad's problem) to handle. I do hope they will prevent him from further abuse, even if they have to take out a restraining order.

I am assuming you are a younger person and your parents are still young enough to be capable of handling their own problems.

I'm so sorry you had to see this situation.

He is very unstable. He thinks he's so important that the whole world should pay attention to him. He believes that we damaged his family... Dude. You took 500k from us. For your failed business. Who suffered more? Son of a *****.

...I'm sorry for my language. But I really, really hate him.
I am aware that it is their problem, but that asshole is spreading lies about us. How can I just stand back and act like everything's alright? This is my family and he needs to chill the hell out. I am thinking about filing a harassment against him, as well as a restraining order. I don't trust him. He tried to break down our freaking door for christ sake.

I have exams coming up, and I'm working, getting 5-6 hours sleep a day. I am so tired of all this drama happening around me... Even if I file a harassment, I don't think it will do any good.