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Old Jun 16, 2013, 07:43 AM
TaylorMcLaughlin TaylorMcLaughlin is offline
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I left my boyfriend in Florida while I go to Delaware for the summer. Now I was heart broken I had to leave, and now I feel like we are at an end. I feel strongly that I have no more feelings for him, and that its at its end. I dont get it, we haven't had many outstanding problems and I dont understand how I can just suddenly fall out of love! Every time I try to leave I get beyond upset and beg for him to take me back. I have tons of anxiety attacks, Im depressed, Im always crying, and I dread talking to him because I feel very upset. I miss him so much but at the same time I feel like I should not talk to him cause I get very upset. I don't wanna leave but I do, and I dont understand this at all. Could this be seperation anxiety, or something?
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Old Jun 17, 2013, 05:28 AM
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Hi Taylor ~ Sweetie, if you've fallen out of love with him, why do you want him to take you back? Why not just move on? If you have no more feelings for him, it makes sense to move on hon. It doesn't make sense to beg him to take you back, and get all upset about this, and panic, etc.

I think you're upsetting yourself for nothing. Accept the fact that you've no longer got feelings for him. There's nothing WRONG with that!! You didn't do anything wrong. It's normal to question your feelings like this. I don't know how old you are, but if you're quite young, i.e. teenager then it's very normal to question your feelings, and to even LOSE feelings for someone when you're away from them for an extended period.

Perhaps when you get back home, things will be different, but for now don't worry about it. Try to have fun this summer, and meet new people! Date, and enjoy yourself, okay? There's nothing wrong with it. Will you do that? God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee
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