[iffylivy]

Lately, I feel like things are changing about me, like I'm becoming a different person. My moods tend to be upside down, like I'm beginning to feel depressed alot and want nothing,to do with some people even my boyfriend. And then I start to feel agitated by the simplest things. Things never bothered me before, I just didn't care, to let it bother me.I feel like not caring about anyones feeling and,just doing whatever the hell I want to do.Could I be experiencing a late rebellious stage in my life? I'm 20 turing 21 this year. My boyfriend says its because he's rubbing off on me, but I hate the fact that because of someone else I'm changing or acting a certain way. What could this all actually be?

[doggiedo]

Hum that's a good question, rebellion or what have u. I workstation a college and have a degree regarding the psychology of the college age adult. Not to bore you, but in essence, college age students like yourself usually are still finding out who they are, what they value, who they want to become in the world. I wouldn't worry about it too much, unless you don't like what you see. If that's the case, maybe take an inventory about what your goals are and what is meaningful to you. How are your current actions and attitudes getting you to reach that goal. If they aren't helping, then how are they hindering you?

Good personal development questions you have mentioned in your post. Good for you for questioning and challenging yourself on them....good luck!

[iffylivy]

Thank you I will take on that approach, and re-analyze my needs, wants and goals in life.Maybe I'll find out what I'm truly missing.