[kala83]

a very, very close friend of mine that I have actually been sexual with in the past.

and another very close friend of mine but have an issue. Not really a good or bad one. My female friend out of the two is scared to death she is pregnant she has already had one child before. And she knows for a fact if she was to have one again it could put her in great danger of dying.

She does not know if she is or is not, she thinks its just from stress only but she has not been able to afford her typical monthly birth control shot that she usually gets.

She confided about this to me last night, but has asked I do not tell others about this. So in kind of an odd twisted way i feel better talking about it here since I am not using my actual name and nor am I giving hers. I am just merely getting this worry and stress off my chest in the best place I know to go to for help.

The only things that make this awkward is #1 for me we all three have had sex, and it was fwb relationship. But we all realized we all three just simply did not mesh with each other well enough for things to progress any more then that to just dating.

Even though personally for me I would have actually liked to have. At one point in time. But I am seeing someone different now.

She would feel bad about doing it, but she knows right now there is no way she could take care of a baby if she was pregnant. So if she was in fact she would possibly need to look into getting an abortion. And of course she would probably not end up telling him. Simply due we both know him well enough he would try to stop her from doing that, and have the kid anyway.

We both highly respect him as a friend but he is not really that sensible about some thing at some times.

NOW there is a chance also if she is in fact pregnant that depending how far along she is, it could be her ex's as well.

I am trying to be there for her as best I can as a friend. But I have a lot of stressful things coming down on me in my life right now too. And I am scared for her honestly and I hate the feeling of not knowing what to do.

[gayleggg]

Basicly, it comes down to her decision. The best you can do is be there for her, to be her friend and support her whatever she decides.

[kala83]

for the most part I realize this just a really hard scary place to be in for either one of us.

[reesecups]

Has she thought about discussing this at Planned Parenthood? Just a suggestion.