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Old Apr 16, 2014, 06:00 PM
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Hi so, my brother has been talking to a girl, lets call her "K". She is very morbid. Now, I can be morbid, but she takes it to another level. The other day, I saw a text between them, it was "the perfect murder". They had a plan for the murder and how to dispose of the body, and where to go and hide. Honestly, it was s***, they would have been caught very shortly (I am into crimminal justice type stuff). But still, it made me very worried because I can see that she is dragging him down. He no longer talks to me like were siblibgs anymore, he has secluded himself from everybody but "K". I have tried to be friendly and talk to her through Facebook. She has yet to read it, and she knows I messaged her because my brother told her. I just all around dont like this girl. I have NO idea what to do. I want to help him, after all, he is my brother/best friend

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Old Apr 16, 2014, 07:01 PM
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Hi so, my brother has been talking to a girl, lets call her "K". She is very morbid. Now, I can be morbid, but she takes it to another level. The other day, I saw a text between them, it was "the perfect murder". They had a plan for the murder and how to dispose of the body, and where to go and hide. Honestly, it was s***, they would have been caught very shortly (I am into crimminal justice type stuff). But still, it made me very worried because I can see that she is dragging him down. He no longer talks to me like were siblibgs anymore, he has secluded himself from everybody but "K". I have tried to be friendly and talk to her through Facebook. She has yet to read it, and she knows I messaged her because my brother told her. I just all around dont like this girl. I have NO idea what to do. I want to help him, after all, he is my brother/best friend
you have got to find a way to talk to your brother away from this girl, maybe go out to lunch together or something, before he gets himself into something he can't get out of..i'm sure you don't want to wind up visiting your brother in some prison i'm sure,right? forensic detectives are very, very good at what they do & as far as i can tell your brother and his morbid friend don't have any professional experience in murder, so the deck is stacked against them..hopefully you can talk some sense into him b4 it's too late! good luck
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Old Apr 28, 2014, 09:39 AM
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Guys.... I judged WAYYY to quickly. I have only been talking to this girl for 2 days, and she really isnt that messed up!! She has issues, but who doesnt? I learned not to judge a book by its cover. Shes still demented, but I am too. Shes really cool!!
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Old Apr 28, 2014, 04:05 PM
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Guys.... I judged WAYYY to quickly. I have only been talking to this girl for 2 days, and she really isnt that messed up!! She has issues, but who doesnt? I learned not to judge a book by its cover. Shes still demented, but I am too. Shes really cool!!
hee hee, well that's a relief! it happens, glad everything worked out!
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Guys.... I judged WAYYY to quickly. I have only been talking to this girl for 2 days, and she really isnt that messed up!! She has issues, but who doesnt? I learned not to judge a book by its cover. Shes still demented, but I am too. Shes really cool!!

That happens, but interestingly enough when I read the first post I was kind of thinking maybe it wasn't as bad as you were thinking. Also though is your brother like interested in a potential relationship with her or just friends?

me and my brother are pretty close but when he is into a girl and potentially wants to date them he will get a bit distant just because he's focusing on that and might not hang out with me as much since he wants to see them and would feel akward bringing his sister along for meeting a girl which I totally understand...I probably wouldn't want to bring him if I was going on a potential date. Not sure if that's relevant to your situation though.
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Old May 01, 2014, 08:05 AM
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That happens, but interestingly enough when I read the first post I was kind of thinking maybe it wasn't as bad as you were thinking. Also though is your brother like interested in a potential relationship with her or just friends?

me and my brother are pretty close but when he is into a girl and potentially wants to date them he will get a bit distant just because he's focusing on that and might not hang out with me as much since he wants to see them and would feel akward bringing his sister along for meeting a girl which I totally understand...I probably wouldn't want to bring him if I was going on a potential date. Not sure if that's relevant to your situation though.
He wants a relationship with her. I mean, shes still homocidal and weird. And I see him going down that path.
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Old May 01, 2014, 08:21 PM
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He wants a relationship with her. I mean, shes still homocidal and weird. And I see him going down that path.
Wow, I think I'm totally confused! First she is homicidal and then she's 'not that bad' then she's back to being homicidal??

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Old May 01, 2014, 08:40 PM
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Yeah. Sorry about that, she is homocidal. But she is cool. I just dont know. Shes nice and all... Just messed up.
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