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#1
Oct 27, 2014, 06:59 PM
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Please can I be weak just now?
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 angelene, Anonymous37954, bluekoi, Fuzzybear, hvert, IceCreamKid, lilacsmoke, Open Eyes, Pikku Myy, spondiferous
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Oct 27, 2014, 07:32 PM
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Maybe it isn't just a matter of being weak, but setting better boundaries instead. Allowing others to carry their weight more.
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Oct 28, 2014, 02:34 AM
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Yes that is true.
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Oct 28, 2014, 09:45 AM
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Oct 28, 2014, 12:34 PM
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out with Perfectionism~! in with Perspectivism~!
 we all need a rest from being US, sometimes,,, enjoy yours~  
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AWAKEN~! |
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Oct 28, 2014, 01:56 PM
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Oct 28, 2014, 02:27 PM
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Hi Jenni, no-one can be strong and responsible all the time and no-one should be expected to be.
Although you know sometimes there's far more strength in admitting we're weak.........in saying we can't...........!!! So yes, absolutely you deserve support just as much as anyone else. You do need to put yourself first at times, you do need to do/say what's best for you at times. Hoping you can think of some ways you can "let go" a bit, but if nothing else right now..........you can be weak here..........we're here for you  And we're here for you if you want to talk.............. Alison |
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#8
Oct 29, 2014, 02:37 AM
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Thanks Alison, you are an amazing and kind lady. Your words always help so much x
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Oct 30, 2014, 06:52 PM
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#10
Oct 30, 2014, 10:48 PM
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#11
Oct 31, 2014, 08:24 AM
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Being able to be weak sometimes is being strong!!
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#12
Oct 31, 2014, 02:21 PM
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I wish I wouldn't feel so wrong about that.
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Nov 10, 2014, 06:31 PM
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I feel like you right now. I'm so tired of carrying everyone else load but I don't know how to say enough no. I sure hope you find some relief soon.
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Nov 16, 2014, 05:56 AM
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Nov 16, 2014, 05:59 AM
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Ya know what irks me the most??? My life insurance policy. I croak...and I still manage to carry that ^&*&^& pail! WTF!!! |
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Nov 25, 2014, 06:44 PM
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Cannot deal with people expecting so much but getting nothing back. Tired of playing mommy to hosts of people, some years and years older then me. It is like others don't see me as a person worth bothering with and that I am less important then them and their needs. Seriously fed up.
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Nov 25, 2014, 07:51 PM
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Been there, done that, Jenni, needing to be the strong one with everything under my thumb. There is a deep fear that things will unravel, and it makes sense too, that things will fall apart if I let up. But somehow, some way, when I let up, my world survived. Maybe not quite my way, but it did. What a relief it was for me to learn this.
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