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Old Feb 01, 2015, 12:24 PM
theGorcelainDoll13 theGorcelainDoll13 is offline
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Recently, I've discovered the many more secrets to my husband that I'm JUST getting to know.

These are the kinds of things you'd expect to know BEFORE marriage but ya know, he's Mr. Secret Agent, all of a sudden.

I've recently discovered that when he was 21/22 years old he accidentally got a girl pregnant and claimed she has a miscarriage/abortion by her 5th month. I saw her Facebook page and not too many "mom" signs but she has a couple pictures of a little boy that has similar features to my husband. She's friends with my husband on Facebook and maybe she's trying to hide this from him because at the time he didn't want to be a father. I just need answers and I'm nervous. I messaged her on Facebook asking for myself. I'm so confused. I'm battling so many emotions.

How am I supposed to react if that little boy IS my husband's son? Help!
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Old Feb 01, 2015, 02:12 PM
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well it will be a shock at first but acceptance will be the ultimate way to go. if he is not lying to you then he didnt know and she was lying to him and it will be a shock to him too. then a decision needs to be made as to whether you want his little boy in your lives or not. if he was lying to you, then you have a whole other mess on your hands.
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