Jealousy

I've been doing so good up til vday(feb 14th). Went out the other night and got so jealous of this tattooed freak with girls hangin all over him while I had to sit alone. I was filled with Rage I'm lonely the girls well women say I'm too nice n sweet yet they hung all over this jerk there's no place for nice guys in this world. No I'm not suicidal or anything these days just lonely and frustrated and sometimes don't know how to handle that rage which I never had before

Well, romance is about more than just being nice or a jerk. Everyone has to bring something to the table. When you start feeling like you're not getting attention from women, you should ask yourself what you're doing to earn that attention and what you bring to the table.

Are you actually approaching women and trying to engage them? Are you negative when you talk? Are you self-effacing? Are you overly gushy or quick to comment on physical appearance (most women are turned off by those comments really early on)? Are you jealous or demanding? Do you have nothing to talk about? These are all things that quickly turn most people, especially women, off. You should keep yourself well-groomed, walk upright with confidence, have hobbies you can talk about, and speak positively.

If you're trying to meet someone, you can try a dating site too. Just keep in mind that it is NEVER that "nice guys finish last", it's that guys who bring nothing to the table don't finish at all. Treat everyone with dignity, have something about yourself that you feel confident about, and tune into learning about the woman you're trying to meet. It's important to know what sort of personality is appealing to you, not just looks.