[kala83]

I finally am at a point where I can move out of my mother's house and get a place of my own away from my mom.....and it seems more and more like this i what needs to happen for the both of us and our sanity.

we both went out for the day to do some things together and I am back at home sitting and resting cause I have had dizzy spell most of the morning....

and I already over hear her make a comment along the lines of "well maybe I should just not let you do the dishes any more"

which I know if I was to ask her out loud about she will claim she is saying to her self.....but she knows full and well I am in the living room and can hear what she has to say and she knows she is saying out load and clear enough to be heard....

Yet for all the time I have told her this kind of thing does in fact qualify as verbal abuse she would refuse to see the truth in that..

I was not able to do the dishes as well as I would have liked today cause I had my pet guinea pig out up stairs in a playpen and was keeping any eye on him and my mom's cat who kept coming in to the kitchen to check him out. And as I said before I have been having bad dizzy spells today...so if my doing the dishes was not where "she" feels it should have been its not my fault I am not having a terrific day and my concentration on certain thing is not where it typically is but. Narcissists like very much to make others feel even they are doing the most they can...to feel as though well that’s great but it was not good enough for me, nor should it be good enough for you.

I am very tired of being around this way of thinking and just wanna hold on to the lovely positive thought of I will soon in a month's time be getting away from this so when I do hear comments like this ignore them come onto websites like this where its a good and healthy place to vent and ignore as much of the negative feed back in my life as I can..cause soon I will have to deal with it all a lot less.

[marmaduke]

Stay strong! You will be away from her soon. Ignore her comments, let them float past. Glad you are moving out

[Keyslost]

In the past the more my sis and I get to being independent my mom gets worse (did that make sense?) So I know where you're coming from. Hang in there and it'll be over before you know it. And then pray for me to pass my test and get out so I can do the same hahaha