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Jul 26, 2015, 02:09 PM
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I don't know really my case, and is it physiological or not.
I am very emotional, currently not into a relationship, I was engaged, never got married, had a long term relationship with EX girlfriend (+10 years), and I have a history with chronic depression. Generally I love Girls more than anything in life referring to the following points: - Whenever I see a pretty girl sitting next to me at wherever I am, I almost can't stop looking at her, and people around me notice this. - If I saw a beautiful girl walking somewhere, I sometimes turn to see her again, the same when I drive my car, many times I was about to make accidents because of my starring at nice girls in the cars next to me. I sometimes try to keep my eyes away from looking, but out of my control I find myself keeps looking. Whenever I find a pretty, elegant Girl with nice perfume and dress, that makes me depressed and feeling misreable. I don't like to mention more details but it is really much more than this, thinking about Girls (physically and emotionally) and anything related to them almost occupy more than 80% of my mind. I am emotionally deprived, I need a partner to export my emotions to her, to save her, love her and make her happy, sometimes when I see a girl I like, afterwards I listen to some sad songs, as she was with me and we broke up, or something that describe my loneliness. What is that type of physiological state? can it be cured? can marriage eliminate these things? Last edited by seawhale; Jul 26, 2015 at 02:22 PM. |
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Jul 26, 2015, 03:48 PM
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Do you think you'd still be attracted to girls you seem 'beautiful' when you are married?
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Jul 26, 2015, 03:49 PM
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May be, I am not sure. |
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Jul 26, 2015, 04:19 PM
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Hmm.. I kind of can relate, but i just love beautiful women and it doesn't bother me. Can you explain why pretty girls in dresses make you depressed?
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 seawhale
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Jul 26, 2015, 04:23 PM
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They make me upset because I feel lonely, don't have a wife, girl friend, so I feel like I wish to find such a pretty girl to fall in love with and take care of her. I am not superficial, love has nothing to do with beauty, but I am talking about the physical appearance. |
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Jul 26, 2015, 04:25 PM
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Have you had a girlfriend lately? Or a date? |
| seawhale
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Jul 26, 2015, 04:26 PM
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Yes I had a girlfriend. |
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Jul 26, 2015, 04:28 PM
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I mean lately
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Jul 26, 2015, 04:30 PM
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No, nothing lately. I have much accumulated emotions inside me. |
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Jul 26, 2015, 04:32 PM
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Alright I understand , did you have therapy before or currently seeing a therapist to talk about this?
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| seawhale
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Jul 26, 2015, 04:33 PM
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No, and I don't know how could a therapist help me with this. |
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Jul 26, 2015, 08:36 PM
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Hi, a therapist can definitely help you with this. I mean...you're here on PC, you're getting support, friendship, and hopefully the work you do here will help you. Therapy would just be a more intensive version of 'here'.
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#13
Jul 29, 2015, 01:59 AM
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Honestly, I don't think this is bad! Of course it must be hard for you, and it can lead to awkward situations sometimes, but the human body is a magical thing! It should be observed, and it should be more appreciated! In my opinion every person in this world should look at people the same way you do!
I don't think marriage can stop this, but thats a good thing, because marriages are not supposed to change people! But falling in love might actually change the way you act, by making you focus more on your girlfriend/fiancee/wife. I'm not a specialist, thats only my opinion! I hope I helped you! |
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