He messes with my head so much

He was asking why I haven't sent the Divorce papers, I made some remark, leading to him texting for an hour or so, which I ignore, eventually another comment about waiting to hear back from courthouse, not true but he doesn't need real reason. He has changed his number. So his text was, this is your husband.

It's not like he really cares or wants to work on our marriage, I bite my tongue though I wanted to say so much. I know it just gives him ammunition. I'm having a hard time, he's making me feel like its all my idea when hes the one who deleted me from his life.

I'm sorry the hurt that was caused..I'm going through a divorce right now. Everything little is so hard..

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I still love him, but he's so bad for me, my life, my health. I realized I had to choose to love me more, but still I wish it wasn't necessary to end things, but I know it is.

Got a court date. Suddenly he wants to file jointly. I'm going to involve an attorney now, he always has alterior motives.

Hearing his voice just upsets me. Seeing him would be bad.

yep. Don't settle for anything less than what you are entitled to. When I left my husband I was just so eager to be free from the negativity and abuse that I was happy to get away. I was also quite fragile. I have always been afraid of confrontation. So, I accepted the first offer/settlement that came my way. I just wanted to put the nasty relationship behind me and gain my freedom. But, I later found out there was a huge cost to my freedom, that he benefited from that settlement with a great deal of wealth.

Again, don't settle for anything less than you deserve. Stay strong.

Aviza,

Why don't you want to sign the divorce papers?