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Nov 23, 2015, 10:28 PM
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Me and my husband are running into a problem and I need advice to make it better. When he gives me advice i take it too literally i don't know how to take criticism so I cry it makes him feel like a monster so then he feels he cant tell me anything to help me and he feels like a jerk and I dont want it to be this way I want him to give me advice i want him to be able to help me but I need advice on how to not be so sensitive to criticism. any ideas?
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Nov 24, 2015, 10:02 AM
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Cannablissfully - I ask dow does HE take advice from you?
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Nov 24, 2015, 11:06 AM
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I would have no idea how to NOT be sensitive to criticism. Advice is one thing; criticism...is another. Maybe if he said.....you might want to consider doing so and so.....I found what worked for me....those are just suggestions......
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Nov 24, 2015, 12:15 PM
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Do you feel like you have to take the advice he gives or is it just offered in a respectful manner? Could you describe us a typical situation?
Usually it takes better communication on both sides. Have you read about M B Rosenberg's concept of Nonviolent Communication? That has helped me a lot |
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