[black-roses]

So I am pretty pissed off at the behaviour of stupid disgusting girls it's bad enough that sleazy men and paedophiles (which are basically the same thing that exists) then I have to see

Possible trigger:

disgusting twelve year olds post naked on Facebook. I no longer have any sympathy for you as your obviously as much of a scum bag as those boys that post naked girls pictures without consent. All you are is a stupid *****. I know I talk large but at least I was 20 when I cam hoed and I didn't start off naked and honestly I went in there thinking oh it's just a little skin but it's all a scam. You behave like this and then want a respectful man to like you **** you, you don't even respect or like yourself. I hate you and I hate sleazebags and paedophiles that take advantage and get off to your behaviour!!!! I didn't do that when I was 12 and my uncle still wanted to have sex with me at 14 so **** you slut!!!!

[~Christina]

You have gone through so much pain dealing with you past, and I am very sorry.

I think that your being so ugly and hateful for other girls is hypocritical and you doing all this shaming is just wrong.

Please get some professional help.

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[black-roses]

I have told them how I felt that it was painful for me to see it because of all the people that I know that have been abused and no one cared. I then left it at that and just couldn't stop crying and I felt sad for the world and all the people that had unjust things happen to them. In my eyes I see her as just another teenager who is going to probably blame every guy for what she has done to herself. That's the worst part it's not even that's she's naked is then she is going to spin that on the man and make them go to jail for rape. She is disgusting I would never fake a pregnancy for that kind of attention so I am a very different person to that. Also I know when I am wrong and when I acted like a skank the difference is I call myself a skank cry about it and then forgive myself; but not these women they hurt themselves and then make everyone else carry the punishments and I don't think that's fair. So I had to say something and a lot of girls agreed that what she was doing was disgusting. So I left it at that.

[divine1966]

If you see 12 years old posting naked pics on Facebook, please report it to Facebook administration. No need to get that angry

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I didn't think of that. To be honest I felt shocked that a 12 year old would be doing that.

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[Onward2wards]

These girls are just trying to come to terms with complex new feelings at that age, and giving guys what they think they want. It strikes me as unfair they then get taken advantage of for it and shamed for it by just about everyone. I wonder if people with your experiences feel a degree of identification with these girls, and are furious with them for making the same mistakes? I know that some feminists (for example) get very upset with other women they see as feeding into what abusive and manipulative men want (or are thought to want), or playing the same games with them. Anger may be understandable, but perhaps concern and guidance are more useful?

A metaphor - if someone wanders into traffic without looking, it may be understandable to be upset with them for getting needlessly hurt and also driving people's insurance rates up (especially if something similar once happened to you), but yelling at them while they are nursing a broken leg is not going to get them to change. Genuine empathy and concern followed by advice from the more experienced is better than reading them the riot act in the street.

I think I can understand your feelings about this. There are days I honestly would love to throw open my window and scream "Excuse me people ... when someone puts themselves in a position of vulnerability .. would you please STOP. TAKING. ADVANTAGE. OF. THEM. THANK YOU!!!" As for people who make themselves vulnerable, I think it's time for an honest and serious discussion with them.

[black-roses]

Originally Posted by Onward2wards

These girls are just trying to come to terms with complex new feelings at that age, and giving guys what they think they want. It strikes me as unfair they then get taken advantage of for it and shamed for it by just about everyone. I wonder if people with your experiences feel a degree of identification with these girls, and are furious with them for making the same mistakes? I know that some feminists (for example) get very upset with other women they see as feeding into what abusive and manipulative men want (or are thought to want), or playing the same games with them. Anger may be understandable, but perhaps concern and guidance are more useful?

A metaphor - if someone wanders into traffic without looking, it may be understandable to be upset with them for getting needlessly hurt and also driving people's insurance rates up (especially if something similar once happened to you), but yelling at them while they are nursing a broken leg is not going to get them to change. Genuine empathy and concern followed by advice from the more experienced is better than reading them the riot act in the street.

I think I can understand your feelings about this. There are days I honestly would love to throw open my window and scream "Excuse me people ... when someone puts themselves in a position of vulnerability .. would you please STOP. TAKING. ADVANTAGE. OF. THEM. THANK YOU!!!" As for people who make themselves vulnerable, I think it's time for an honest and serious discussion with them.

My anger is more at the fact that someone would do something as stupid as that. I get it if some girls send bfs and etc nudes but the entire internet for every paedophile and rapist to comment on I don't understand... I am probably more angry from my lack of understanding at why someone with their entire life ahead would do something like that to then be used and abused by asshole men I don't understand...

They are children. Blame everyone else, but don't blame the child.

[black-roses]

Originally Posted by sophiesmom

They are children. Blame everyone else, but don't blame the child.

Yeah I know it's sad and disappointing but what can I do guide her?