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I have a weird way to express my emotions. Sometimes, it seems I'm inappropriately expressive and for the majority of other times, it's like they don't exist.
I think it stems from my childhood when I'd get in trouble for being too emotional. Admittedly, I had psychological collapses when I was very young as I'd become emotionally overwhelmed. And I got in trouble for it. I don't know if that is why I'm so emotionally "quiet" these days, that is until the dam breaks. Years ago, I'd found myself stepping through the door to attaining a childhood dream. I was accepted at a pretty prestigious school for graduate school. The director of admissions called me and when I spoke with him, he seemed surprised that I wasn't excited. He even asked me why I wasn't more excited. I made up an answer. More recently,
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I suppose I have this feeling of being rejected, admonished, or criticized whenever I display the slightest bit of emotion. But, then maybe months or years later, something happens and I put forth a deluge of strongly and sometimes incoherently worded emails or texts regarding my inner struggle. I guess I just don't know what emotions are okay to show to which friends because it seems to me that I can't "be myself." Now, this isn't on my friends, this is all on me, I know.
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My heart goes out to you. I'm sorry about the loss of your friend. This is a pattern that you learned in childhood that is not serving you well now. I encourage you to see a therapist to label, acknowledge and feel all your emotions in an appropriate fashion. Good luck and best wishes.
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