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Mar 22, 2018, 12:26 PM
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He texted last night, and called this morning. It didn't work out with his fling, he says they never had sex she wasn't ready for a relationship. But now I'm dating and talking with a few guys I'm not really sure I want to go back. No one has really proven to be better than him yet. Many were worse.
One guy if he's not a scam is truly better and I'm waiting to see if he passes my test. He's military does one sided video chats, I'm on video he doesn't have a webcam he says, he took my number today to hopefully call me. We've been chatting a few days. I asked him to provide a picture of him holding a piece of paper with the current date on it. He's a day ahead based on where he's at and said he would do it. I hope to see that today. Of the 3 guys I am chatting with one did it, and put on the paper do you trust me now. I still didn't really and ended up breaking up with him because he made me feel bad about myself. The other guy makes me feel good. I pondered it because he did prove to be real, but still it wasn't a match. Dating sucks and now my ex is one of the guys I'm chatting with, so I'm filtering him like all the rest of them. This is a better way to date, but it's also more complex.
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Mar 22, 2018, 01:06 PM
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 Hope you will do what makes you happy. Keep trying and keep your options open. Be honest.
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Mar 22, 2018, 01:25 PM
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So, you start to have fun and get a little light in your life and the darkness of your past wants to come shadow you over? I would say "no" very directly. You broke up for a reason. Get mad at me if you want to, because I know this might seem harsh, but seriously is that ex what you truly need in your life to be happy?
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#4
Mar 22, 2018, 03:19 PM
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Honestly if these men are even worse than your ex that
Possible trigger:
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Mar 22, 2018, 07:22 PM
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Possible trigger:
Can y'all use the trigger code when you refer to that incident. It's super triggering to read about.
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Mar 22, 2018, 07:49 PM
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Edit: Already fixed, shortly after me asking. Woohoo!!!! Thank you moderators! |
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Mar 23, 2018, 10:39 AM
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Dating websites, the worst was bbwcupid, match.com.
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Mar 23, 2018, 10:43 AM
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Dating sites. I'm so ugh about those. I get enough dudes asking if I'm gay already.
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Mar 23, 2018, 11:02 AM
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Your ex wants you back because it didn't work out with his fling? That goes beyond douche. If you haven't found the one that interests you yet, don't settle.
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Mar 23, 2018, 11:23 AM
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I think it’s super nasty for him to ask you back because some other woman didn’t work out. So disrespectful of him
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