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He's texting me every day. I have told him I have moved on, though not entirely, but my emotions aren't really with him anymore. I can't bring myself to block him entirely. That just seems harsh and part of me likes the attention. I guess I like having him on the back burner in case military guy doesn't work out, but it really can't work out with him so I know logically I need to let him go. But with him not letting me go it makes it harder. Is there something I can say or do besides blocking him?
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Son: 14, 12/15/2009 R.I.P. ![]() Daughter: 20 ![]() Diagnosis: Bipolar with Psychosis. Latuda 100 mgs. |
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#2
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Decide for yourself, do you ever want him and that situation to repeat? Easy question
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#3
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I know it's hard, but you need to block him, or at least make things clear once and for all.
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Blocking is the way. It can be a hard way, but it is the way.
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#5
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“Keeping him on the back burner” is not fair to him and not healthy for you. If the relationship didn’t work, it’s time to block him and move on.
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Block him if he keeps texting after that |
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#7
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I did give him closure and tried to end on a good note. He said goodbye. I think he's done now, first time he's said good bye. I didn't respond to his goodbye made me sad. I will miss him.
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Son: 14, 12/15/2009 R.I.P. ![]() Daughter: 20 ![]() Diagnosis: Bipolar with Psychosis. Latuda 100 mgs. |
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But overtime I know it’s difficult to block people too |
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