[*Laurie*]

I am being horribly cyberbullied and harassed on Facebook by a woman. We were in a group together. She is the Admin and we had a mild disagreement because I believed that she was not following group rules. So she blocked me from the group. Childish, but I moved on. Now she is harassing me in every way possible. Yes, I have blocked her - it doesn't matter, as she is admin of several groups in our town. She has blocked me from every local group and/or talked her friends into doing the same thing to me.

I volunteer in my community and give my heart and soul to doing so. I am told that I help so many people, particularly those struggling with mental illness. But now, when I truly need a friend - or 2, or 3 - to help me out by standing up to that awful woman, everyone says, "Gee...she sounds so mean...". NO ONE has said, "What do you need? How can I help?"

I am blessed with my 5 cats. If it were not for them today would be my last day on this earth. I am so done with being abused, hurt, used, and heartbroken by cruel people. So done. I can talk with my therapist, she's kind and sympathetic, but so what? Nothing changes.


I just need to vent, to be heard by other people who are truly struggling.

[mugwort2]

IDK what to tell you. She sounds like a real vindicative B. I feel terrible for you. I'm sorry couldn't be more helpful and not just supportive.

[Rive1976]

Please dont let her drive you over the edge. She is not worth it.

[Lillia]

Originally Posted by *Laurie*

I just need to vent, to be heard by other people who are truly struggling.

I was also harassed and stalked online, albeit it being when I was a teen. You're doing the right thing by not talking to her or giving her the time of day; eventually, she will move on and find a new target (tragic, but people like her need someone to belittle). Everything will fall in place and things will work out. Personally, I do not give my harassers or stalkers the satisfaction of consuming my time or thoughts!

[*Laurie*]

I am blessed by my cats. I have drastically cut the people out of my life this summer. I have found that I have very little use for most people.

(((((Laurie))))) you deserve to be treated like the wonderful angel you are

[divine1966]

That’s terrible. That’s really awful. I stay away from social media, I am petrified of it. Stay strong, we are here for you. You deserve kindness and love.

Oh gosh. This sounds like a situation that feels just ugly. Give it time though. Be patient. People will see through ugly and mean behavior. They will. I know it’s causing you a great deal of anxiety but I think it will blow over in time. I do hope some of your friends will stand by you the meantime. ❤️