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Old Mar 07, 2019, 05:13 PM
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I'm at the ICU and have been for the past three days. My girlfriend was having surgery to fix her aneurysm. Something went terribly wrong in the surgery and induced in a coma. Today they tried to wake her up but the pressure in her head was too high so they put her back in the coma.
I'm preparing for the worst, it's hurting so bad. My kids are sad and staying with their gramps for the weekend. I'm staying at the hospital but the drs say they won't try anything until after the weekend. I'm afraid of being left alone, afraid of going home, lost and no one to really talk to.
Any support would be awesome.
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Old Mar 07, 2019, 05:43 PM
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Dealing with grief of a loved one

My best wishes to you & your girlfriend.
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Old Mar 07, 2019, 06:49 PM
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I am so sorry, I’ll be thinking about you both and praying for the best outcome. Many hugs to you.
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Old Mar 07, 2019, 07:16 PM
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Old Mar 07, 2019, 08:30 PM
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Thank you, keep the well wishes coming. I fear the worst is coming. My intuition is pulling on me but I'm keeping my heart in it.
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Old Mar 07, 2019, 09:09 PM
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I'm at the ICU and have been for the past three days. My girlfriend was having surgery to fix her aneurysm. Something went terribly wrong in the surgery and induced in a coma. Today they tried to wake her up but the pressure in her head was too high so they put her back in the coma.
I'm preparing for the worst, it's hurting so bad. My kids are sad and staying with their gramps for the weekend. I'm staying at the hospital but the drs say they won't try anything until after the weekend. I'm afraid of being left alone, afraid of going home, lost and no one to really talk to.
Any support would be awesome.
I'm sorry that you are struggling right now!
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Old Mar 07, 2019, 11:35 PM
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I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you. I've been there.

Hoping for the best.
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Old Mar 08, 2019, 03:34 AM
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My thoughts are with you. Nothing can really express my empathy correctly on here..
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