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Do you bear grudges?
Do you sometimes sense or assume bad intent from people sometimes when there may be none? Do you think being very sensitive (which I am) is a gift? Or not. Or does it vary? Does this vary according to your illness/mh issues? __________________ |
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Fuzzybear bearing grudges? I doubt it.
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Usually not forever. Typically I'll be upset for a bit but I can, after a reasonable amount of time passes and I cool down, let go.
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Absolutely. If I'm agitated or feeling paranoid due to MH triggers, I will be much more likely to suspect bad intent. Whereas when I'm in a more normal frame of mind, even outright jabs that are obvious don't bother me. __________________ What if I fall? Oh, my dear, but what if you fly? Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia. Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less... |
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I am a very sensitive person (someone could say something, and I'll asume it's about me) even though I don't know that for sure
I'll usually tell them in the nicest possible way to get lost, and if they want to talk about it later, then they can feel free to find me and discuss it. then depending on their explanation depends on how I feel about future contact with that person I might choose to stay in contact, but always remember what they did/ said so it will never be the same, or just cut contact with them all together with all that said, if you've been my friend (for longterm), I don't hold anything against that person I have few friends, an those I do have I keep close if you're my friend, you're friend until the end you just gotta work on the friend part first |
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Oh yes. I am an expert at them. But I like to put it this way.. I am very open and kind to people until you "flip my switch" which typically takes a lot. Once you flip it... it breaks... and you are dead to me. I don't know why I am this way but you are literally dead to me. I have no further feeling or concern about you and likely, never will. |
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