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Location: Los Angeles
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Apr 17, 2019 at 01:22 PM
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I don't know if I can help, but I do that to myself also. The past two relationships ended with the women telling me at length what a horrible person I am because they kept inventories. Any slight I had done over the past five years.. boom. Never forgiven, never forgotten. My mom did that also. Not to me, but she sure knew when this person did her wrong or that one. So, I have internalized it to at least some degree that I am a horrible person. My higher brain knows I'm not, but it's hard to convince the rest of me that is the case. So I tend to shy away from trying to find anyone else, telling myself why bother? I want to fix that, it's why I am here.
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Apr 17, 2019 at 05:45 PM
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I’m very sorry you were treated that way Sam. Women can be that way sometimes. I am worried maybe I have been that way too and I work so very hard to be positive and kind as much as I can. I hope you find someone better suited for you who lifts you up instead of stomping on you. |
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