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I don’t care either. That’s interesting. Those of us who don’t care what everybody else is doing would rather they not question us about we are doing.
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I really think you've gotten a lot of great advice here LilyMop. I appreciate your OP because it helps ME. It gives me another perspective on that general question. I find a lot of ppl, including me, ask that as a conversation piece or just small talk.
But yeah tell them you don't much get into the holidays and then deflect to THEM. People love talking about themselves lol. |
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So I put everybody’s advice to work today. Somebody was asking the probing questions about my Christmas plans and I just kept busy doing what I was doing and I just made up some vague nonsense and immediately asked about her plans. She’s not a personal friend and she’s not someone I feel at all comfortable sharing with. So I didn’t and I just didn’t even worry about it for a change.
It was refreshing to just not worry about it. I have told myself that I’m not obligated to answer people’s nosy questions in any way. I notice people’s responses are different when I just don’t give a ... bleep... It’s funny how our perception changes when we give ourselves permission to do things differently. |
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