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Old Feb 02, 2020, 06:14 PM
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How do you ''deal'' with people who are not respectful, not caring, not honest, who are like a bush full of tainted prickles and all about themselves.
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Old Feb 02, 2020, 06:39 PM
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How do you ''deal'' with people who are not respectful, not caring, not honest, who are like a bush full of tainted prickles and all about themselves.
It's tricky, Fuzzy. I worry that I'm quite self-obsessed

'A bush full of tainted prickles'. Amazing simile...

It depends if ignoring / avoiding them is an option? If so, I'll do that.

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Old Feb 02, 2020, 06:47 PM
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Avoid avoid avoid. Walk away from toxic people. Don't engage.
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Old Feb 02, 2020, 10:43 PM
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Many ways exist for dealing with difficult people. Avoidance is good - if possible.
Sometimes difficult people leave stubbornly persistent impressions on us. That leaves us the task of dealing with their damage and memories.
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It's tricky, Fuzzy. I worry that I'm quite self-obsessed

'A bush full of tainted prickles'. Amazing simile...

It depends if ignoring / avoiding them is an option? If so, I'll do that.

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I try to avoid them when I can, but that's not always possible! We just need to manage our reactions to these people the best way we can in my opinion! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Fuzzybear, your Family, your Friends, EVERYONE HERE and ALL of your Loved Ones, ok?! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!
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Old Feb 04, 2020, 01:55 PM
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How do you ''deal'' with people who are not respectful, not caring, not honest, who are like a bush full of tainted prickles and all about themselves.
I wish that I knew the answer.
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I try to avoid them when I can, but that's not always possible! We just need to manage our reactions to these people the best way we can in my opinion! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Fuzzybear, your Family, your Friends, EVERYONE HERE and ALL of your Loved Ones, ok?! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!
That is great advice. I will keep that in mind.
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Personally I try to avoid them. If that's not possible I try to limit my time with them. I was advised to do that by my therapist because my mother, God Rest Her Soul, was one of those.
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Personally I try to avoid them. If that's not possible I try to limit my time with them. I was advised to do that by my therapist because my mother, God Rest Her Soul, was one of those.
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Old Feb 06, 2020, 02:44 AM
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It depends if ignoring / avoiding them is an option? If so, I'll do that.
Ignored them all
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