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Default Dec 30, 2020 at 01:01 PM
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I just feel like people are really judgemental. Can't even talk about anything without being judged. It's already hard enough to talk about things and people have to make things worse. It's really hard to find the right person to talk to. Most people just don't make any sense to me. People make me really angry. I'd just like to have a normal conversation with someone without being judged. Anyone else ever heard of the term active listening? Because I feel like most people could learn from that.
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Default Dec 30, 2020 at 01:16 PM
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Just trying to vent man because people really drive me crazy sometimes
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Default Dec 30, 2020 at 02:02 PM
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So Sorry that happens! It is certainly not easy to find people whom are not that much judgemental but it is not impossible so i'd say definitely keep looking. Also try to avoid this kind of people whenever you can while also avoiding letting their comments affect you that much! SEnding many Safe, Warm hugs to BOTH you, @DarkMagician, your Family, your FriEnds and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!
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Default Jan 07, 2021 at 10:10 PM
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Totally agree with you on all counts DarkMagician. Totally agree. 'It is better to travel alone than with a fool for a companion.' Less anger for one thing, friend.

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I find that people are the exact opposite of that. They do whatever, and I mean WHATEVER, possible to not have an opinion. No matter who they hurt in the process.

I think it’s natural to feel like your being judged or criticized and it is likely people secretary are doing that (sorry if they are being blatantly harsh) all the time. Maybe try addressing the issues one at a time as you are faced with them (but don’t let unthoughtful comments effect you too much) or stop seeing the people who do this.

Sometimes you just need to be patient with people until they get it. Sometimes people just aren’t in the right state of mind to overcome their own insecurities. You can try to be there with them, or you can move on.

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Default Jan 08, 2021 at 09:42 AM
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I just feel like people are really judgemental. Can't even talk about anything without being judged. It's already hard enough to talk about things and people have to make things worse. It's really hard to find the right person to talk to. Most people just don't make any sense to me. People make me really angry. I'd just like to have a normal conversation with someone without being judged. Anyone else ever heard of the term active listening? Because I feel like most people could learn from that.
I completely agree. Active listening is a skill many appear to be deficient in, sadly. Many could learn from that, I agree.

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Totally agree with you on all counts DarkMagician. Totally agree. 'It is better to travel alone than with a fool for a companion.' Less anger for one thing, friend.
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