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Default Jan 15, 2021 at 04:47 AM
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But I wish I could write a Facebook status to tell some truths about my life, relationships and then go
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Default Jan 15, 2021 at 05:12 AM
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Not posting anything on facebook or looking at it for now gives you time to see how you feel about it in the future. The people who are close to you IRL can be confided in individually, outside of facebook.

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Default Jan 16, 2021 at 09:29 PM
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Hi @Gasplessy,

One thing I've come to learn is that, for my own wellbeing, if after explaining to people my position about anything or after trying to get them to understand something important about myself but they still don't get it or just aren't interested then there's really no point trying any further. Why bang your head up against a brick wall day in and day out?

You don't need to prove yourself to people who can't see who are in the first place. Let them go, friend. 🙏

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Default Jan 30, 2021 at 11:41 PM
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Hi @Gasplessy,

One thing I've come to learn is that, for my own wellbeing, if after explaining to people my position about anything or after trying to get them to understand something important about myself but they still don't get it or just aren't interested then there's really no point trying any further. Why bang your head up against a brick wall day in and day out?

You don't need to prove yourself to people who can't see who are in the first place. Let them go, friend. 🙏
Good post


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