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Magnate
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#21
He was my fiancee at the time, btw. Not husband yet.
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#23
Unless prince actually proposed marriage and you said no or proposed you join him on stage to sing and you sad no, there is no way to know how and what could have happened.
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Magnate
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I didn't follow my intuition is why it bug me so much. My whole everything said take off the ring but i frooze and couldn't do it. I thought about how happy my parents would be they hated my fiancee, i thought about how i wouldn't have a ride home. At least that was a concern. I thought about how we were living together, my fiancee had my stuff. I wouldn't be able to get it back. Even when he proposed by asking me to wear his ring, not to marry him. I thought I'll just take off the ring later cause i was 19 not ready to get married and i still didn't take off the ring. I really regret that day. Who knows where I'd be now.
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Aviza, strictly speaking you don't know what would have happened. You could have gone down that path and then end up talking about your biggest regret now having done so.
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#26
Mid life crisis is tough for me and do have regrets sometimes. I mean hindsight is 20/20. There’s a good show called Being Erica & she is able to go back in time and revisit past life events she mostly regrets. It helps me to focus on what I learned from past events and choices I’ve made, but still I can often focus on regrets often to the point of rumination.
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