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@JH8854,
IMO it may not be desirable to get so heavily invested in someone online, existing as electrons flowing through network cables from some electronic venue. All those feelings, all the neurochemistry that gets stirred up by the emotions are for real flesh and blood people that your senses can see, feel smell and taste. Quote:
Yes, on several occasions throughout my life, have only in recent years come to understand Limerence, and how my experiences and behavior fall under that label. I am currently struggling with an LE(Limerent Event), I have good days and bad days, am working hard to keep from making a fool of myself. |
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Blaming, manipulative, abusive, not rightful anger or sensible, rational reasoning. Quote:
I'm truly sorry. It wasn't preventable though. It was who she (or he) was. It wasn't your actions. Her behaviour reveals bad character. You didn't lose anything beyond a fantasy. How did she even find out? Quote:
1. Your actions were rational, not out of insecurity. It's rational to want to make sure you are not jumping into something stupid (e.g. catfish bull****) 2. You did not break her boundaries. You were not disrespectful. You did not talk about her behind her back. Because you did not give any info that could have identified her. SHE broke your boundaries by demanding you can't do basic, rational, sensible things. |
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