My day was just terrible!

modestlychee6463 · Apr 27, 2021 at 05:22 PM

Here I took that one riding mower tire to get it fixed only for my brother rant at me and mother that he got patches for that same tire. It seems like the decisions I make seem to blow up in my face. I guess it's meant to be that way.

MsLady · Apr 27, 2021 at 06:45 PM

The good news is, fixing it meant the tire will last longer. He can save the patches for another wheel or time. Don't sweat it.

Open Eyes · Apr 27, 2021 at 11:12 PM

You actually got it done/fixed, he didn’t. Don’t allow yourself to absorb his negativity.

RoxanneToto · Apr 28, 2021 at 01:31 AM

It wasn’t a bad decision on your part; your brother could have explained he already got patches in a calm way, even if he was angry/frustrated. If you think something needs doing, I think it’s better to just get it done!

MickeyCheeky · 12:14 PM

So Sorry that happened!

i agree with the other wise and wonderful posters! You simply did what you felt was right. Try to not let this affect you that much. You just did your best. Nothing to be ashamed of for trying at least in my opinion. Please be kind to yourself and others. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @modestlychee6463, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!

modestlychee6463 · Apr 28, 2021 at 08:26 PM

He was upset I didn't tell him and wait for the patch instead of fixing it myself. So that's probably why I felt bad. He didn't like it when I paid to get the tire fixed instead of him putting on that patch himself.

MsLady · Apr 29, 2021 at 01:02 PM

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Originally Posted by modestlychee6463

He was upset I didn't tell him and wait for the patch instead of fixing it myself. So that's probably why I felt bad. He didn't like it when I paid to get the tire fixed instead of him putting on that patch himself.

Lol it's a macho/ego issue on his part. If he brings it up again, say, "You're welcome."

Open Eyes · Apr 29, 2021 at 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by modestlychee6463

He was upset I didn't tell him and wait for the patch instead of fixing it myself. So that's probably why I felt bad. He didn't like it when I paid to get the tire fixed instead of him putting on that patch himself.

Ok, but he has to learn that his upset should not be taken out on you and your mother. Instead he should have made it a point to inform the two of you that he got a patch and is planning on fixing it. You can’t be expected to be a mind reader.

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modestlychee6463 Veteran Member Member Since Mar 2021 Location: MA: Stanberry, Missouri Posts: 513 3 62 hugs given	Apr 27, 2021 at 05:22 PM #1 Here I took that one riding mower tire to get it fixed only for my brother rant at me and mother that he got patches for that same tire. It seems like the decisions I make seem to blow up in my face. I guess it's meant to be that way.
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MsLady Poohbah Member Since Mar 2020 Location: Earth Posts: 1,143 4 360 hugs given	Apr 27, 2021 at 06:45 PM #2 The good news is, fixing it meant the tire will last longer. He can save the patches for another wheel or time. Don't sweat it.
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Open Eyes Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Mar 2011 Location: Northeast USA Posts: 23,108 (SuperPoster!) 13 21.3k hugs given	Apr 27, 2021 at 11:12 PM #3 You actually got it done/fixed, he didn’t. Don’t allow yourself to absorb his negativity.
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RoxanneToto Grand Poohbah Member Since Aug 2020 Location: England Posts: 1,692 3 6,991 hugs given	Apr 28, 2021 at 01:31 AM #4 It wasn’t a bad decision on your part; your brother could have explained he already got patches in a calm way, even if he was angry/frustrated. If you think something needs doing, I think it’s better to just get it done!
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modestlychee6463 Veteran Member Member Since Mar 2021 Location: MA: Stanberry, Missouri Posts: 513 3 62 hugs given	Apr 28, 2021 at 08:26 PM #6 He was upset I didn't tell him and wait for the patch instead of fixing it myself. So that's probably why I felt bad. He didn't like it when I paid to get the tire fixed instead of him putting on that patch himself.
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