I try not to think about it.

modestlychee6463 · May 05, 2021 at 12:02 AM

I can't seem to bear the thought of losing my mother. I would go places with her to shop for groceries and clothes and fun stuff and visit people. If that would happen, I would feel a terrible void of having another female close by. I'm afraid it'd be very hard on me to deal with. It makes me shudder just to think about it. I'm just trying to relieve this burden of emotion I'm feeling. it depresses me that I seem to act and think so young but I just know eventually I'm going to go the same way too.

MickeyCheeky · May 05, 2021 at 09:20 AM

That is certainly a scary thought. Try to focus on the present. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @modestlychee6463, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!

mote.of.soul · May 05, 2021 at 11:54 PM

I think it's a pretty good way to just not think about it. Focus on the present as Mickey said, and the good things instead. Cross all bridges when/if you come to them. You'll be okay. 🙏

modestlychee6463 · May 06, 2021 at 07:20 AM

I do my best to focus on the present. What triggered it was that in the past year she kept saying that this is probably my time to go right in front of me, and also that this brother of mine said he didn't think she would last all that long, either.

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MickeyCheeky Legendary Member Since Jun 2016 Location: Italy Posts: 11,817 (SuperPoster!) 7 38.4k hugs given	May 05, 2021 at 09:20 AM #2 That is certainly a scary thought. Try to focus on the present. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @modestlychee6463, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!
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mote.of.soul Mad Walker Member Since Jan 2018 Location: New Zealand Posts: 13,094 (SuperPoster!) 6 21.9k hugs given	May 05, 2021 at 11:54 PM #3 I think it's a pretty good way to just not think about it. Focus on the present as Mickey said, and the good things instead. Cross all bridges when/if you come to them. You'll be okay. 🙏 __________________ "A flower falls, even though we love it; and a weed grows, even though we do not love it."- Dōgen
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modestlychee6463 Veteran Member Member Since Mar 2021 Location: MA: Stanberry, Missouri Posts: 513 3 62 hugs given	May 06, 2021 at 07:20 AM #4 I do my best to focus on the present. What triggered it was that in the past year she kept saying that this is probably my time to go right in front of me, and also that this brother of mine said he didn't think she would last all that long, either.
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