Angry Tears

My parents told me the other day that my aunts on my father's side sent them a very disrespectful message. I wanted to read it myself of course, so I asked for a screenshot of it. Now, I'm livid. They want to take all of the properties my grandparents left the 4 of them when they passed away. This particular aunt, the third child (Aunt 3), was talking to my dad very arrogantly and without any respect. She made all these threats that she will do this and that if my dad doesn't sign. I told my dad not to sign since all of them 4 siblings should get a part of the properties. Actually, I don't care about the other properties. I just care about the house I grew up in. There are 5 properties my aunts want for themselves. We don't actually need them so take it if they want it, I just really hate how they talk to my dad. Aunt 3 was accusing my dad of being greedy, while they were the ones who had the papers to the properties, and they want them for themselves. Aunt 2 also said if my dad won't sign, they will make us pay the rent for all the years we stayed in the house we built on the property my grandparents. None of their threats are "valid, " but my dad just doesn't want anything to do with them, so he signed. That makes me angry, too. It's like he validated all of my aunts accusations by signing it. I want to write back and hurt them, but my mom said I shouldn't. Now, I don't know how to manage my anger and I ended up crying a lot. I can't unsee the messages now. It's burned into my memory and I can't forget them. How can I forget this? I just want to get rid of this feeling, but if I would follow my heart and be done with this, I would really send them an angry email and tell them to go to hell. I'm usually calm, but I hate it when someone harasses my parents.

So Sorry that you've had to put up with this! Please Do not give up! i think your feelings are valid. Unfortunately i am not really sure what to suggest as sending them an e-mail may make things even harder for your family perhaps. Hugs. As sad as it may sound i'd suggest to simply ignore their actions and cut off contacts with them if possible. i think it is great that you Love your parents so much. i Hope things will improve really soon for everyone. You keep standing up for yourself and your Loved Ones. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @mssweatypalms, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!

I see your point, MickeyCheeky. I should listen to them and not say anything more.