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Default Nov 03, 2022 at 02:25 AM
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I have deep loneliness because I am single I know there's nothing wrong with being single and I have fears of ending up alone forever. These fears I have no understanding where these fears come from but it comes in ebbs and waves. I try not to think about my fears at first I was always doing tarot asking about my love life and it was feeding the compulsion and fear so I stopped doing it. I don't like feeling this way I don't think it's normal to feel this way it's not like desperation but a deep emptiness and I just feel like nobody can get me out of this loveless pit. I do positive affirmations daily and now shadow healing but the loneliness is still something that bothers me. I don't know what's the root cause of it it's something so deep. I just try to do the thing day by day and ignore the feelings hoping the thoughts and feelings go away but they never do.
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Default Nov 03, 2022 at 03:41 AM
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I feel all the things you are feeling about being single but for my 25 year old daughter who is on the autism spectrum. No first kiss, no boyfriend, no first date, no friends except for acquaintances with providers with appointments. I cant explain why I feel this way, but all that you feel I can empathise and feel. I guess its because I see people together and I crave that for my girl. I have my own mental health and anxieties. I just want her to have that person that has her back and gets her as she is. I hope you will be ok and that feeling you talk about it feels physical doesnt it? I wish you love and peace my dear.
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Default Nov 03, 2022 at 05:13 AM
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I've had boyfriends etc. I just find it so frustrating that I don't feel like I connect with people on a deep level I don't know if it's a me thing or a them thing. It just feels hollow. I feel like if I was in Madeira the little island I born I'd have my family around me and there's always well known faces there's a huge community in that island it's almost like everyone knows each other. I don't have that kind of community in Australia it's like everyone just serves for themselves and I feel out of place. It's a weird thing to say because Ive lived here my whole life but I've also lived in Madeira and I just like there way of life better. I guess I have to make the most of what I have. It's hard to believe I'm in this country for any reason...
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