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Default Nov 05, 2022 at 04:55 AM
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I'm just thinking it's probably a good thing I'm single imagine anyone having to put up with my stupid obsessive thoughts. So it's a good thing I don't have children because then they have to freaking have mental illness to destroy them just like it has destroyed me.
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Default Nov 05, 2022 at 10:09 PM
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Hi black-roses.👋

Regarding children, yes, I can fully relate to those types of concerns. Myself, I've always been cautious about being a dad due to my own mental health struggles and general struggles with life. I think it's a good thing to put the welfare of the possible child first, definitely, so good on you.🙏 And now at age 53 and knowing everything that I've been through, I'm so happy(?) was never a parent. I would've given them my cursed genes and secondly would've let these kids down in many ways. They'd grow up despising me, embarrassed (probably) and that's not a good thing for a kid to carry around.🙏

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