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Default May 24, 2024 at 09:09 PM
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I can’t work like this anymore. I can’t live like this anymore. I can’t rip my heart out of my chest and offer it to people only to have them smash it time and time again. This is too much. This is bad. This is majorly ****ed up. Something’s gotta give. Like, NOW.

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Default May 27, 2024 at 07:01 PM
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I hear you...

Learning to set boundaries can help...

Plus choosing people who have similar values to you, not just common interests, is so very important ...

You deserve to be valued and respected.
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How about if you don't give your heart away before truly getting to know someone & only if they are worthy & if they find you worthy do you bother to get involved with them to that level. Means learning emotional self control & being observant of other people not blindly thinking people are worthy of even being friends when they aren't.

Usually therapists can help people develop a batter emotional maturity if one truly wants it

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How about if you don't give your heart away before truly getting to know someone & only if they are worthy & if they find you worthy do you bother to get involved with them to that level. Means learning emotional self control & being observant of other people not blindly thinking people are worthy of even being friends when they aren't.

Usually therapists can help people develop a batter emotional maturity if one truly wants it
I think she was referring to customers/patients. Maybe I am wrong.
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