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Default Jan 25, 2023 at 08:12 PM
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There's not much that shocks me on the internet I've been in chats with people sending disturbing stuff normalising disturbing behaviour. However nothing could prepare me to seeing women defending Andrew Tate who is like a proven abuser that's in jail. It's very painful to see that behaviour accepted and condoned. I even had to speak out on my personal media to call out to other women urging them not to defend this behaviour not to be that woman. However I can't shake this horrible feeling of heartbreak knowing so many women were abused like that's upsetting and very triggering. I know this is my personal trauma speaking as well and I too have learnt to block out memories of my sister like being assaulted not like the SA these girls experienced but still abuse nevertheless but I realize it hurts so deep because I've also had my mother defend my abuser as well. Or even say that there a good son I think when someone abuses someone all there good behaviour should be null and void. This person still will always be just another abuser. I wish I could say my mother was outraged at what happened to me like I am outraged at random women being abused but she never defended me or cared and I will carry that trauma with me forever. Not having her defend me or even threaten to kick me out. Like that will hurt me forever.
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