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Grand Poohbah
Member Since Dec 2015
Location: Australia
Posts: 1,608
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#1
I'm so sick people disputing the fact that I am psychologically can't work I'm sick of people acting like the know they know **** I tell these people that I am physically unwell I can't work they suggest I try. Try freaking what try freaking endangering others like honestly piss off this world can piss out with its disbelief of my unwellness it's real and very debilitating to me. If I can't stay in course because of such debilitating anxiety then how do you expect me to work. It's infuriating I am I'm so sick of people not believing it. I have three serious diagnoses all of them equally deserving of diagnosis meanwhile I have to sit here grovelling when people won't even ****ing bother to believe me and maybe understand that I am not exaggerating nor am I making it up
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unaluna
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Grand Member
Member Since Nov 2015
Location: Michigan
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#2
Again, I don’t understand where you’re getting this idea that nobody believes you. You say you can’t work, okay. Do whatever your govt requires to get benefits and accept that you cannot work. Nobody knows you here, you post frequently about wanting to work, what responses are you looking for?
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Grand Poohbah
Member Since Dec 2015
Location: Australia
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#3
I want opportunities to meet people to have true friends I can't have all that if I am not a functioning member of society can I? I'm just always gonna scrape the bottom.
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Location: US
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#4
We believe you. We just go by what you post. You never said you cannot work. You usually talk a lot about wanting to work so we respond with ideas about jobs. We are just trying to help going by what you post.
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Elder
Member Since Oct 2019
Location: UK
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It sounds like you’re struggling with feeling like you don’t fit in, is that right? I’ve felt that before, it’s a horrible feeling, but it isn’t necessarily going to be that way forever, although it might feel like that. |
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Grand Poohbah
Member Since Dec 2015
Location: Australia
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I feel like I'm an outlier on the edges of society with no place to go feel useless. I wanted to work because it would give purpose but know I realise I have no purpose that I am indeed an empty soul just watching other people live on this earth.
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Grand Poohbah
Member Since Dec 2015
Location: Australia
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#7
My soul is empty and I just live to watch others life I have no working mind of my own I make choices based on what Centrelink wants not what I want or need
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Grand Poohbah
Member Since Dec 2015
Location: Australia
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#8
Ive also realised that I've been very childish everyone that tried to help me I attacked because they weren't saying what I wanted, but I refused to merely accept the truth that I am unsuited to nursing. I realise now that I've been throwing tantrums like a child. Not getting their way and it's time for me to act like an adult and face things at face value, stop hurting the ones that love me the most with my childish tantrums, depression for they are not at fault it's the way I think of myself and the world that makes me unhappy. It's me that must take responsibility for my unhappiness no one else
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Discombobulated, Molinit, Nammu
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Crone
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#9
Very insightful
__________________ Nammu …Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …... Desiderata Max Ehrmann |
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Grand Poohbah
Member Since Dec 2015
Location: Australia
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#10
Honestly my friends think I have autism because I act but if I'm being honest the problem I have is that I didn't want a counsellor to help me and it was because I found that they didn't actually help me. My frustration that I didn't get the right help so I stop looking for it. It's stupid isn't it but I do need a psychologist
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You’re right that we don’t know you, but we can see insight and intelligence in your posts. |
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