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tomorrow is the anniversary of my mom's death :bawling
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Your mom sounds like she was a wonderful woman, and I am sorry to hear about her passing.
My suggestion (if at all possible) is that on her anniversaries, Try to do things you never got the chance to do when she was alive. It doesn't sound weird. Think of it as honouring her and doing the stuff she always wanted to do. Everyone has that one thing.. I am sure she did too. |
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I love what @emily1890 said.
Your mom is with you. If it’s a purely atheistic stand point, we’re all made from stardust and will return to dust, together. There’s part of her in you, in your genes and in who you are, in your beliefs, memories, lens on the world or whatever. Maybe Connect with those parts to honor her. If you believe in a spirit, then maybe take some time in the quiet so you can feel her spirit with you. |
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emily1890,RDMercer Thank you both and I do try to honor her everyday. We recently went so you went through. Utah and Montana and all those places that I know she was wanted to go and I should have taken her Ashes so that I could spread some in those places, but I forgot our son-in-law. Just passed away, so we had to go to Seattle.
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emily1890 it seems like you and I have a lot in common. Are you from the US? How old are you or what age group I'm in my mid-40s and from Texas but now I live in Colorado, long story.
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