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Jul 05, 2011 at 09:27 AM
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i feel like i being a complete annoying person because i am dependent on people i feel like i can never go right either im annoying people and need to get lost or i may not be annying but think i am but really i am...i dont know what to do i want to curl in a ball and hope it all stops its not fair i hate being to much i dont mean to be i try really hard to be a good person whats wrong with me
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Jul 24, 2011 at 04:12 PM
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__________________ Jewels "Love is just a word until someone gives it meaning" 
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Jul 25, 2011 at 08:41 PM
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Jul 29, 2011 at 12:42 AM
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__________________ Jewels "Love is just a word until someone gives it meaning"
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Aug 04, 2011 at 02:34 PM
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i dont think i'm in any speical theapy. i'm tired of what i'm in now. i'm hoping i can replace it with somehting else. |
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Aug 06, 2011 at 01:36 PM
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i'm sorry. i really am. i didnt mean to do anything. i'm sorry. i didnt mean to. i promise i'll try to fix it. i'm sorry.
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Aug 12, 2011 at 12:08 AM
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Aug 21, 2011 at 08:10 PM
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i just stressing out about nothing and it seems to get worse and worse everytime.
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Aug 24, 2011 at 04:50 PM
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I relate very much to feeling "annoying" and when I feel this way, I somehow make it even harder for myself and others.
When I feel this way, I withdraw, I feel frustrated, sad, shut down, ashamed. I have felt like this most of my life. Then it seems like ppl want to help me and then again, there goes the vicious cycle: "See, people keep coming at you cause you are so needy." Then I withdraw more. I guess often I break this cycle by trying to fight the shame, but sometimes it still gets me. Billi __________________ The idea of a soul mate is an ILLUSION. In reality, we must learn to be our own best friend/partner. Then if love comes to us, we will already be whole. All that love can do, at that point, is enhance our wholeness!  |
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Aug 24, 2011 at 07:00 PM
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i'm really tired of being dependent. i cant take it anymore. |
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Aug 25, 2011 at 11:08 AM
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Me too.
Billi __________________ The idea of a soul mate is an ILLUSION. In reality, we must learn to be our own best friend/partner. Then if love comes to us, we will already be whole. All that love can do, at that point, is enhance our wholeness! |
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Oct 05, 2011 at 10:35 AM
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WE must grow ourselves from within in therapy
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Oct 05, 2011 at 11:16 AM
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I feel the same way a lot of the time and can relate to the push away come close dynamic. Just this week my T said that the messages I received as a child I have internalized and taken on as my own. Has me wondering today if I really am too much for everyone or was just too much for the folks who were around when I was a child. I then believed them and now think I am too dependent, too this and too that when maybe it's not true. Could the parent we adored really not handle my needs as a child well that's hard to think about but maybe it's true too, who knows. If we get the message long enough we take it on as being our truth. Maybe it is true that my needs are too great too. Therapy does help sort this kind of thing out
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Oct 06, 2011 at 12:21 PM
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You were a child you had no part in your dependency it was done to you!I also internalized dependency and i'm scared i can't live without it.
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Nov 29, 2011 at 05:15 PM
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OMG!!!!!! That is exactly how I feel! I'm sorry u r going thru this (trust me I know!) But in a way it feels good to even know someone else feels this way. |
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Dec 01, 2011 at 07:31 PM
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I feel like this too pretty often. And then I don't have anything to give back to the people who help me.
__________________ You must go on, I can't go on, I'll go on. - Samuel Beckett It's never too late to start all over again - Steppenwolf Every person carries with him or herself patterns of thinking, feeling, and potential acting which were learned throughout their lifetime...As soon as certain patterns...have established themselves...he must unlearn these...and unlearning is more difficult than learning for the first time. - Geert Hofstede |
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Feb 21, 2012 at 10:48 AM
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I understand completely how you feel I just wish I could chat but I can't seem to open up which is what has brought me here message me if you like im sure talking about our experiences together will at least help us to both come to terms with things xx
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