Home Menu

Menu



advertisement
Closed Thread
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old May 11, 2013, 06:24 PM
roseblossom's Avatar
roseblossom roseblossom is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Apr 2013
Location: Never Never Land
Posts: 243
I have just been looking at different ways a person can be dependent because I have been thinking about my own situation and wanted to share them here and ask if anyone has other examples that they can think of or have experienced:-

depending on another person to reason or think for you

depending on another person to soothe you emotionally or comfort you physically

depending on another person to make decisions for you

depending on another person to provide financially for you

depending on another person's status to boost your self-esteem

depending on another person's accomplishments to boost your self worth

depending on another person's popularity to boost your self-worth

depending on another person to care for your physical needs

I noticed that essentially all these things seemed to indicate a possible core belief of helplessness or incapability or low self-worth. (I haven't researched dependent personality disorder fully so maybe stating whats already well known to other people here).
Hugs from:
jimmy rich, optimize990h, Panda_Girl_17, Trusty
Thanks for this!
berkut, Panda_Girl_17, Trusty

advertisement
  #2  
Old May 11, 2013, 08:22 PM
roseblossom's Avatar
roseblossom roseblossom is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Apr 2013
Location: Never Never Land
Posts: 243
Thanks for the hugs optimize.

I think that having read now more about dependent personality disorder, my experience is more related to co-dependency and so I will post the list I've written under the Relationships forum.
  #3  
Old Oct 27, 2013, 08:54 PM
Trusty's Avatar
Trusty Trusty is offline
New Member
 
Member Since: Oct 2013
Location: With my fiancee
Posts: 5
I relate on depending on another person to reason or think for me, to soothe me emotionally or comfort me physically and to make decisions for me.

I don't know what to do with this knowledge. It's not like I've known or thought about it for long. But I can really relate.
  #4  
Old Sep 04, 2014, 01:37 AM
jimmy rich's Avatar
jimmy rich jimmy rich is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Aug 2014
Location: California
Posts: 361
Ooops, I am not supposed to post on any string that's older than one month in here! Sorry gang.

Last edited by jimmy rich; Sep 04, 2014 at 01:40 AM. Reason: String is too old!
  #5  
Old Jan 18, 2015, 12:37 PM
Restin's Avatar
Restin Restin is offline
Veteran Member
 
Member Since: Apr 2003
Location: Central Florida, USA
Posts: 550
I would like to add to the list above: Depending on a therapist from a regressed, inner- child standpoint in regard to unresolved abuse or deprivation that is searching for healing.
Closed Thread
attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 12:57 AM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.



 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.